“It is always someone or something else that is somehow responsible for the problems you’re having.
People like me who blame others tend to overemphasize themselves while at the same time underemphasizing the negative effects of their actions.
Realize something very important here, I didn't say 'overemphasize the effects of others on them,' I said, overemphasize themselves. Overemphasizing the negative impact others have had on them is very much a part of overemphasizing self.”