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Kelsey
An Upmarket Conversation
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Marriage is one of the most important decisions people make in their lives. Twentysomethings should be choosy about the right things when they can still think clearly about claiming their lives (rather than scrambling when they reach their thirties and wedding invitations start pouring in).
Picking Your Family
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Your spouse's family will define the decades ahead. Choose wisely.
The Cohabitation Effect
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Couples who move in together before getting engaged have higher divorce rates. If you must move in together before getting engaged, one way to avoid lock-in* is by making sure that both parties have a clear understanding of each other's commitment level prior to moving in. Regularly check in with yourself and make sure you're not just staying because it's more convenient than leaving.
On Dating Down
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The stories you tell about yourself affect who you let yourself date. Hold yourself to a higher standard.
Being in Like
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Some research says that the more similar two people's personalities are, the more likely they are to be satisfied with their relationship.
*Lock-in is defined as "the decreased likelihood to search for other options, or change to another option, once an investment in something has been made."
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Marriage is one of the most important decisions people make in their lives. Twentysomethings should be choosy about the right things when they can still think clearly about claiming their lives (rather than scrambling when they reach their thirties and wedding invitations start pouring in).
Picking Your Family
==============
Your spouse's family will define the decades ahead. Choose wisely.
The Cohabitation Effect
==================
Couples who move in together before getting engaged have higher divorce rates. If you must move in together before getting engaged, one way to avoid lock-in* is by making sure that both parties have a clear understanding of each other's commitment level prior to moving in. Regularly check in with yourself and make sure you're not just staying because it's more convenient than leaving.
On Dating Down
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The stories you tell about yourself affect who you let yourself date. Hold yourself to a higher standard.
Being in Like
==========
Some research says that the more similar two people's personalities are, the more likely they are to be satisfied with their relationship.
*Lock-in is defined as "the decreased likelihood to search for other options, or change to another option, once an investment in something has been made."
Véronique-Laura
I do - you need to be intentional and think about your distant future even in your twenties.
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