A Goodreads user asked this question about My Dark Vanessa:
Do you recommend this book for a 16 yr old girl? The girl read Room a few years ago and wasn't upset about the upsetting stuff and actually loved the book.
Cleo Everyone has their own level of intellectual capability. But, the answer to this question depends on whether the said teenager has the right environme…moreEveryone has their own level of intellectual capability. But, the answer to this question depends on whether the said teenager has the right environment or has a safe space to discuss the subject material.

I strongly disagree that the main character romanticizes abuse as she had (in multiple chapters) talked about escaping it and fearing it and being repulsed by it albeit in a flowery language that talks about oceans and groceries. In fact, Vanessa employs a defensive mechanism of denial and rebrands her abuse as a love story to live with her own self-loathing.

The language Russell uses is straightforward enough that young adults of varying backgrounds can appreciate the work. The book serves a dual purpose of being a realistic cautionary tale and conversation piece to a hot issue. In the right setting for discussion, it can be uplifting and empowering.

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by Kate Elizabeth Russell (Goodreads Author)
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