When You're Ready, This Is How You Heal

by Brianna Wiest

when your purpose is an infinite expression of your own nature.

Because when we assume that everyone is required to be who we think they should be, we place limitations on them, and we ultimately just make ourselves frustrated and resentful.

“The best” doesn’t mean “the most perfect.”

show up in each moment and you work with what you have, instead of just complaining about what you don’t.

Heal your relationship with yourself, and the rest will fall into place.

When you realize that your words, your actions, and your beliefs deeply impact not only your reality but the realities of those around you, you start taking yourself a lot more seriously.

It’s not that you’re not trying hard enough, but that you’re too attached to things that aren’t right for you.

if you’re subconsciously looking for a reason to play it safe, you’ll always find one.

try to amend your routine so that you wake up earlier and get to enjoy your coffee, find time to meditate or journal, work on writing, business building, or even spending time with someone you love.

The way you use your energy each day plants the seeds of the harvest you’ll reap in the future. Spend them wisely.

If nobody else was around, or would ever know anything about your life ever again, how would you live? It’s about existing in a way that’s in authentic alignment to who you are, not what’s in forced alignment to who someone else is.

have each day is like having a set amount of money in a bank account that expires at the end of each day.

What you don’t use, you lose.

It’s not just what would feel good now, but also what you’ll thank yourself for later.

Stop assuming you always know best. This doesn’t instill confidence in the way you think it might.

Let life surprise you. Let experts help you.

When you commit to working on yourself, that effort radiates out and touches everything and everyone around you.

Decide that you’re ready to expand your heart past its current perimeters.

There is so much more waiting for you, but you have to be...

fortune favors the brave, then it also prefers the bold.

You need to think beyond the limits of your current perspective.

Anger is the healthy response to injustice, or a boundary being crossed.

Jealousy is the healthy response to seeing someone else pursue what you are resisting. Likewise,

what you need to do next, you sat down and allowed yourself to feel what you feel

What if you don’t need to demand answers right now, but allow yourself to process the fullest extent of your experiences until you feel reset again?

hope you will simply allow yourself to feel that without pressuring yourself to be more at peace.

I mean that you’re mean to know yourself at your core.

If, on the other hand, you’re looking back on instances in which you didn’t set boundaries that you should have and are regretting your lack of self-respect, write it all down.

Real change is almost always catalyzed not by a feeling of inspiration, but a feeling of discontent.

What’s meant for you will come to you, and it will stay with you for as long as it needs to.

it is only ever in solitude that we extract the most important truths about our lives.

Life is not a popularity contest.

Lean into how you feel. Rather than leaning out of their emotions, resilient people get clear on what they feel and why.

Though you cannot always control what you feel, you can control how you respond, and in that response, you can find

Your mind craves reason and certainty and structure and logic and clarity, and that is precisely what will cause the most resistance.

who are happy, well adjusted, and pursuing their own individual goals get together, the relationship lasts.

Not because you’re trying to, but because you have so many other things to think about now. You have so many places to go, things to hope for, and passions to keep your mind consumed.

because you started filling your life

with things you cared about more.

Unless you want to mourn forever, you have to change.

The tricky thing about relationships is that they almost never end with certainty.

happens with people who are just right enough to make you hope,

but just wrong enough to prevent you from getting closer, or making it official.

The truth is that nobody is looking for anything serious until someone comes along who they seriously love.

It is never the right time until it is the right person.

When you are uncertain, you are open to making choices that otherwise wouldn’t have been possible,

Close your eyes and visualize the highest and best version of your future self.

It is nobody else’s job to make us feel safe, to make us feel that all is well and right.

you will always be okay not because everything will go the way you initially planned, but because you will adapt even if it doesn’t.

Life doesn’t start when we’re set on the answers,