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“It was fine. There was some old guy catcallin’ from the drive-thru. Called me sweetcheeks.” “Awww,” she says. “Well, that’s kind of flattering if you think about it.” “Mama, come on. No, that’s gross.”
Mom pulls open the drawer on the nightstand and begins to sort papers into different stacks. I can see her mind working. Keep, toss, maybe. Some days I wonder which pile I fall into. “Can you just
Marcus mumbles something about PMS and to my surprise, from the kitchen, Bo says, “Why can’t she just be having a shitty day? You don’t need to make up some bullshit reason why.”
He holds his hand out for a shake and I take it. I expect his palm to be sweaty, but it’s not. Like Goldilocks and her third bed. It’s just right.
This in-box full of unopened messages is the truest reminder that we are temporary fixtures in a permanent world.
“I don’t know. I think you gotta be who you want to be until you feel like you are whoever it is you’re trying to become. Sometimes half of doing something is pretending that you can.”
There’s something about swimsuits that make you think you’ve got to earn the right to wear them. And that’s wrong. Really, the criteria is simple.
Do you have a body? Put a swimsuit on it.
Sometimes figuring out who you are means understanding that we are a mosaic of experiences.