Models: Attract Women Through Honesty

by Mark Manson

Misdirection: One of the most common and easiest forms of humor is misdirection. Misdirection occurs when you begin to say something or tell a story

that leads the listener to believe you’re making one point, and then out of nowhere you say something completely different.

make humorous comments that are derogatory about someone. Generally, teasing is done in good humor and with good intentions. Teasing with bad intentions

becomes insulting and is not welcome by most people.

Also, beware of falling into the trap of self-deprecating humor.

A lot of men, particularly needy men who are highly invested in other people’s reactions around them, will make fun of themselves and put themselves down in order to get a laugh.

Although this may make women laugh, when used in excess, it’s a needy behavior because you’re sacrificing your own self-perception for the sake of others’ amusement. Therefore, it’s

ultimately unattractive.

recommend turning those same jokes and thoughts onto the women you’re talking to. Instead of making fun...

Some naturally funny men overly rely on their ability to make a girl laugh and actually overdo it. Instead of being attractive and strong men, they become entertainers constantly seeking attention and validation.

Ultimately, you aren’t ever really attracting a woman unless you’re connecting with her physically and emotionally.

And although humor is a very useful tool to help you do that, it doesn’t actually do it for you.

involves the following: trading of contact details, talking through text or phone conversations, going on dates, sex, and figuring out what kind of relationship (if any) will result. Usually (but not always) in that order. In certain instances, the contact details

and date can be forgone and you can bring

finding a way to make it happen, then she probably doesn’t like you as much as you thought she did. • • - Think of it this way. If Brad Pitt texted her asking her out, do you think she could suddenly clear her busy work schedule and move her weekend plans back? I

physically. And escalation signals mean that she wants to get sexual with you.

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Job security/satisfaction:

Pursue one social hobby regularly:

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