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June 3 - August 26, 2019
It is important, especially for guys who are successful, not to spend the night talking about your achievements, how much money you make, what kind of car you drive, what your watch is like, or how much you spend on wardrobe. Most guys talk too much and ruin attraction. None of this causes attraction.
Another topic to avoid is talking about your future together. That includes taking her out in the future, or at the end of the date, asking her out on a second date. If you start talking about your future together, you are basically going to lower your chances of having a future with her. You want the topic of a future together to be her idea.
Remember – you want her to be curious and unsure of her standing with you.
If you tell her everything that’s going to happen, there is no anticipation, no mystery, there is nothing to look forward to.
Google “Corey Wayne The Myth Of The One” for a detailed article and video on my website you
this. Guys want to go on and on about all of their problems.
A woman will read it as the “kiss of death,” even though you might be trying to be a gentleman about it. Google “Corey Wayne Never Apologize For Wanting Her.”
After you give her a goodnight kiss, you are going to say: I had a good time. Or: It was a nice evening. Don’t elaborate. Stay in your center, and
It’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.
Beautiful women will often bluff you to test and see if you’re really confident.
This also goes back to another point I mentioned earlier. Don’t go into a relationship, any kind of relationship, with the thought of what you can get out of it.
Wrong answer. You want her to wonder about you, because again, that is going to have a positive effect on her attraction for you.
In the beginning, you date once a week until she starts initiating contact and reaching out to you first.
The idea is, men will pursue in the beginning of a relationship, usually through week 2, week 3 on average, and once the woman starts reaching out in between those dates, then the guy’s pursuit is over, and from that point forward, all he has to do is wait to hear from her, and then when he does, make the next date and then get off the phone.
If she ever backs off, always go back to the once per week rule, where you initiate one phone call per week to set one date per week.
It always shows more confidence and masculinity if you call instead of texting her. However, if she texts you first, it’s okay to use texting to set the next date.
If she does happen to call you, remember: The phone is for making dates, not being her therapist, emotional tampon or gay male girlfriend.
All of a sudden, you will see yourself going from a guy that has been really busy, maybe dating ten other women, to a guy that has nothing else going on. A few weeks into the relationship, if you start doing that, she will stop pursuing you.
wait until the following week to call and ask her out again. If you still can’t make a definite date with her, don’t bother calling to ask her out again, because at that point, for whatever reason, her attraction level has
Make a definite date, get her address, and tell her you are going to pick her up;
The bottom line is that if she is interested in you, she is going to call you. Don’t start running after her.
she will back off on purpose to see if you run after her. Stand your ground. You can’t react to the fact that she has all of a sudden stopped calling you. If you do, she will see you as being needy and back off even more.
Tell me all about it when I see you on Tuesday. I want to hear all about it then. That way, I can give you 100% of my attention. I’m really jammed up right now, and I can’t talk.
Some guys get hung up on: Oh, I’m having this great conversation with this girl, but they never go out on dates with her. Unless you’re going out on dates, sleeping together, etc., you don’t have a romantic relationship.
Don’t talk about your future, because you will lower your chances of being in it.
Right after she has broken a date, she says: But I can’t wait to see you again.
What does that mean? If she really wanted to see you – guess what? You’d be going out with her.
When a woman says you are not listening to her, she is indicating that you are not remembering the things she’s saying, or understanding where she’s coming
If she senses you are needy, or maybe she has said something that made you jealous, then she is going to do a lot more of what made you jealous.
A woman has to know that if she pushes you too far, you will walk away and never look back.
What is happening is the anticipation is not where it needs to be, and you are not
When dating a woman who has just come out of a long-term relationship or marriage, you have to keep in mind that her feelings are going to be really raw.
Most guys, on the first date or the second date, are already saying: I love you. Women respond by pushing that neediness away: What? I don’t even know you yet.
They’re not comfortable enough going it alone, so what they do is, they start calling the male orbiters, or the guys that are kind of hanging out in the background that always want to date them, and they start lining them up once they
If she is talking about this other guy positively, it is her way of saying: You need to wake up and
Women are all about opening up and receiving your love and your presence. The masculine energy is all about purpose, drive, direction, and mission in life, and breaking through barriers.
The reason she was angry was that you gave her your word and then didn’t keep it. When a guy does that, it does not make his lady feel safe. It makes her doubt his masculine core. When she doubts his core, she either has to test him to feel his strength,
Why should I have to teach him? But most men really don’t know these things.
Oh, I’m fine. I don’t want to talk about it right now. NOT. That is a test.
Guys go on this whole rationalizing thing. That is the wrong way to go about it.
It’s a big
mistake to try to use logic and reason to win an argument, because even if you win, you’ll lose.
She is riding the wave of emotion. Don’t take it personally. She’s just expressing herself. It is just the place that women come from.
Even when his wife protests, and tests, he still fights, even if it means losing everything. Even if it means that she is not going to support him. This is masculine energy.
For example, if you ask a woman something, and she responds with: I’ll think about it. It
means no. Chances
a bland face to go with that remark, but if y...
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down, and roll over. With a woman, it is like the cat analogy. You have to read her actions.
You always judge a woman by what she does, not what she says.
is good to share things, but before you do, ask yourself this first: If I tell her this, is it going to have a positive effect on her attraction toward me, or is it going to have a negative effect?
