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Corey Wayne
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June 3 - August 26, 2019
man is one of the 3 men out of 100 that a woman meets
website that go into more detail of the essential skills,
guidance and are willing to learn, I will give you the
emails. So there I was: Strike Two. I resolved to not get married again
and read them again to retain the knowledge. When you think you have it down pat, read it again.
the dynamic of how women go about getting this love is similar to how they seek love and support from
Women will chase you if you give them the space to miss you by not chasing them.
Men who chase women get rejected because
the very act of chasing a woman is a submissive
feminine q...
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The simple answer to that is the nice guy is
easy. She can completely have her way with him. He’s not strong. He’s not centered. He acts more like a woman than a man. Emotionally, that does not make her feel safe or that he could actually protect her. It says to her that he is untrustworthy, and that basically he will do or say anything just to make her happy.
might give her phone number out to 10 or 12 different guys. Predictably, what happens is
The quality of your life
is in direct proportion to the quality of the people
you consistently spend your time ...
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the only way to see healthier relationships around us is to be a part of building our own happiness and letting it follow forward through the next generation.
are about opening up and receiving your love and presence. That is the feminine energy. The masculine energy is all about purpose, drive, direction, and mission in life. The masculine energy is also about breaking through barriers.
To a woman, when a guy is engaging his emotions at the beginning of the relationship, without taking the time to get to know who she is first, he seems needy.
It makes her leery and uncomfortable. She doesn’t feel safe with him, because he is not
in his masculine.
Before you can start getting into declarations of love, you need to make a woman feel comfortable. She has to feel safe. You need to make her feel that she can be totally in her feminine and relax, without having to keep her guard up against your next move. The best way to do this is with laughter.
You should always come from the place and assume that all women want you.
You should be friendly to EVERYONE everywhere you go. Treat all women the same. Why? Because repetition is the mother of skill. "Excellence is not a singular act but a habit. You are what you do repeatedly." ~ Aristotle.
uncomfortable, inauthentic, ass-kissy, phony and basically
When we get hung-up on one woman only who has not earned it through her actions, we are either acting needy, due to a scarcity mindset and fear of loss, or this is the pattern of how we unconsciously sabotage our own success to avoid a relationship altogether by fixating on someone who is unavailable or uninterested.
A strong, centered, confident guy is going to walk up to a woman and read her level of attraction for him.
Gentlemen, what you have just told this lady is that you are negative. You are not necessarily a fun person to be around. You are bitter, and she needs to keep her guard up around you so she doesn’t end up as the next focus for your negativity. You are needy and not in your center. How can a woman feel comfortable and relaxed under such an onslaught? This is the kind of crap they show in movies and TV all the time: men acting like women attracts women.
Remember, like I said before, when a woman feels heard and understood, the legs open. When she doesn’t, the legs close.
I highly recommend Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People” audio
Your sole purpose with a woman is to make her feel comfortable, make her laugh and to get her level of attraction to go up. Then you want to quickly get her contact
Because it is an important point to stress, I am going to say it again: Women fall in love slower than men fall in love.
When a woman says to you: I’m not looking for a relationship. She’s really saying: Whoa… slow down. I just want to have fun. I need to trust you and feel comfortable with you before that option is even on the table.
They don’t understand the concept of rejection if a stranger pushes them away. They will come right back for more. Dogs will feel an instant attraction, an instant affection for a total stranger, and run around obeying commands at the drop of a hat.
Women are like cats. They come and go as they please… and… YOU MUST LET THEM!!!
move quickly or be too aggressive. You also have to treat the beautiful woman just like you would treat the woman you have absolutely no interest in. It
For a guy that is single and looking, it becomes the big realization that: I don’t have much competition at all.
walk through the mall now and see women checking me out all the time. Years ago, the only time that would happen was when I was with a girlfriend.
The wining, dining, and romance thing is not what they are looking for at the start. Well, it’s not the complete answer. It’s only part of the answer.
If she walks away, who cares? The chances are high that she will come back. If not, move on.
Plus, women are usually physically weaker than men. All women have a
natural instinctive fear of being alone with a man who won’t stop when they ask him to. If you
The bar or the nightclub scene, in my experience, is one of the least effective ways to meet women.
The best way I have found to meet women is at weddings, art shows, seminars, private parties, social events, malls, grocery stores, trade shows or even at work. If you meet a woman in a more open, public place, whether it’s in a grocery store or somewhere else, she is going to have her guard up versus meeting through mutual friends at a party, weddings, social events, etc.
Go places you love, and do things you love. It makes it easy to talk about the environment you’re both in, because you both share a mutual passion and interest in it. In a grocery store, or a mall,
Oh, when he meets me, he’ll just love me for who I am on the inside. What do you do if you ever go out to meet someone from the Internet for a coffee or quick drink, and they are nothing like their picture, and
they have totally misrepresented themselves? In my eyes,
The simple truth is that my friend is not being in his masculine. He is too caught up in need. He is at the point where he needs her.
Uncertainty is a feminine quality anyway. It is important to be aware of our need for certainty and how it can get us into trouble.
Approval seeking behavior is not masculine. It is creepy, stalker-like behavior.
