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Corey Wayne
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June 3 - August 26, 2019
Nothing could be further from the truth. If you are a super pleaser, any woman that has a sense of strength of her own is never going to respect you as anything other than a friend.
You have to be confident in yourself and show it to a woman. Confidence says to her: I know I’m good enough for you. It gives them the feeling that you will be able to keep her safe, and she could trust herself to open up to you emotionally.
They meet a woman that they are really interested, in and they go from these strong, centered guys to weak, needy, and insecure super pleasers.
When I go out with a woman, my primary goal is for her to have a good time. My contribution is to make her laugh, make her feel comfortable, and make her happy – that’s it.
Once a guy really understands women and is able to get into a relationship, he is going to realize that every relationship is an opportunity for growth.
what do you do if you just met someone last night, and you just know she’s into you?
Oh, God, if I don’t call her right now, I am going to burst. If I don’t call her, she is going to get pissed off and be mad at me. The bottom line is that you have to ask yourself a simple question: Have you ever gotten the type of woman you really want, and have been able to keep her, based upon what you were doing in the past?
It’s a scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.
Do you take care of yourself? Do you look good? Do you wear nice clothes? Do you dress nicely? Are you clean-shaven, or do you wear a beard with confidence, because it’s who you are? Do you have nice cologne on? Do you take care of your appearance
If her eyes then go to the left or the right and she just continues doing what she is doing, that usually means that she’s not finding you appealing enough. If you are walking
toward her, and she looks you in the eye, looks down, back up at you, and then away, that usually means that she has an attraction to you.
When you walk up to a woman that you have not met, you need to walk up and simply say: Hi. What’s your name? Wait for her response. She may say something along the lines of: My name’s
At this point, you are not going to volunteer and say: Well, my name’s Corey. When she says: My name’s Jessica, you are only going to say: Well, Jessica, it’s nice to meet you, without volunteering your name.
Trying to make her feel sorry for you is not going to make her want you more.
Ask her something along the lines of: Jessica, I’ve got to run, what’s your phone number? After that, just stop. Do not say anything else.
Women like mystery. They like the process of dating. They want to discover, and they want to be discovered.
Invite them on a date; don’t tell them, sell or ask them if they’d like to go out with you.
Most guys, when they meet a woman, spend a lot of time telling her everything about them. In essence talking her right out of liking them by talking too much.
The best response is not to say: No, I don’t have a girlfriend. When she asks: Do you have a girlfriend? Just
I’m just dating and having a lot of fun right now… or… I’ve always got room for one more... or… Can we get to know each other a little bit better before
The key is that you don’t want to get hung up and hold attachments to one particular lady until she does all the things right to warrant you devoting all of your time and all
They start talking about girlfriends. They start talking about dating and all this other stuff, and she starts thinking: This guy is needy. This guy has no confidence and is weak.
That brings another point to mind: When a woman gives you a number, don’t stand there and call it to see if it is a legitimate number.
Single? Don’t Get Hung Up On One Woman.”
No amount of talking to her, joking, teasing, is going to do anything to make her want to be with you. It is important to understand that. Attraction is NOT a choice.
While your goal is driving you to meet the kind of woman you feel you deserve, this also means you want to be screening others out.
that you haven’t even gone out on your first date with her yet, and you already can’t live without her.
All women have been with guys like that, and it will turn her off to the point where she is probably not going to even bother to call you back.
They are dying for a guy that is not needy, one that is not going to be jumping all over a chance to go out with them like they’re the last woman on the planet,
Masculine energy is about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers, achieving goals, etc.
It is power. It is confidence. It is danger. It is leadership. It is mystery.
It is the feeling: I don’t think I could ever get my way with that guy, and that makes me feel safe. This guy could protect me.
If she has already forgotten you, then her attraction level wasn’t high enough to begin with. At that point, you just need to move on.
someone doesn’t remember you, you need to move on, because you’re wasting your time. It shows an attraction level that is below a 5.
I’ve got to talk. I have to get her to really warm up to me. I have to talk to her on the phone a couple times for two to three hours, and then I’ll finally ask her out.
That shows your schedule is wide open, you don’t have anything else going on, please pick a day where I actually get to spend some time with you and have you grace me with your presence, your highness.
Great, Jessica. I look forward to seeing you Thursday night at 8. If you get there first, get us a table. If I get there first, I will get us a table. If something comes up, I will call you. Otherwise, I will see you at blah, blah. Does that sound good? Her: Yes. That’s it.
That means it is more than likely that something is going to come up, and she is going to cancel.
You want someone to be as excited about going out with you as you are with them.
Under normal circumstances, once something has ended with someone and they blew you off, forget about it and move on.
Okay. Call me before you come just to confirm. I told her: I don’t call and confirm dates or appointments. I’m a very busy guy. I would like to take you to lunch. If you can’t make a definite commitment to get together with me for lunch, then we will
Tip: don’t do lunches.
Just give me your address.
If you met in a very public place or on the Internet, then it is more understandable that she would want to meet you away from her home.
I’m too busy. I don’t have time. I have to get my head together. I need to find myself. I don’t want a relationship. I’m not sure where I’m able to be at this point in my life. I’m
She may try to give you a call back to confirm your date, which you will not accept. You will stand your ground and answer accordingly as mentioned earlier in this section.
You become comfortable with being yourself. You make it a part of who you are.
Sooner or later, you own it. And you have to own it, because if you can’t maintain it later in the relationship, if you
ever let that down, then you are not the person she thought you wer...
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Going to the movies, loud music venues, lunches, etc. are not a good idea. You want the opportunity to get to know somebody. Talking creates rapport. If you go to a movie date,
