How To Be A 3% Man, Winning The Heart Of The Woman Of Your Dreams

by Corey Wayne

I would also like to express my gratitude to you, the reader. You are embarking on a journey that will change the world. By becoming the loving person you are inside and being comfortable with that person, you unconsciously give permission to all others to do the same. Your children will grow up in a household where they get to see first hand what a truly unconditional, loving relationship is like. Therefore, they will go out into the world and model your success. This will continue to impact society for generations to come and start reducing the amount of dysfunctional relationships that exist today. The benefits will be too far reaching to imagine. The surface benefits will be happier kids, aunts, uncles, grandparents, parents, teachers, workers, etc., which will translate into less crime, less hate, more understanding, and a world that continues to come closer and closer together in love until one day hatred becomes a thing of the past. The light always scatters the darkness. The higher energy of love always replaces the lower energies of hate and resentment.

Throughout the book I will give you search terms you can Google that will bring up specific articles and YouTube videos on my website that go into more detail of the essential skills, techniques and knowledge related to specific parts of this book.

Google “Corey Wayne Why You Have No Competition.”

You will learn that you MUST treat all women the same. As a matter of fact, a big reason why guys fail with women they have a perfectly good chance of seducing is because they treat women they like and want differently than women they don’t. They put women on a pedestal and treat them like a celebrity instead of a real human being. They act like they are unworthy of her and don’t even realize that they’re doing it! Women have no choice but to agree with their bad behavior and reject them.

Adam Carolla, the comedian, said that when a woman likes you, she starts opening her doors and all you have to do is walk through them, but if they start closing in your face you simply walk away. The key is to know when to walk away and when to take action.

Google “Corey Wayne Act Like A Stalker… Get Rejected.”

The lower her level of attraction is, the harder it is going to be to get to her front door or meet up for a date, if at all. So throughout this process of going back to the beginning and re-learning how to approach women, you will be learning what to say, how to say it, and you will know how to respond to her questions and her tests.

Make no mistake – all women test. They test because they want to know what it is that you are made of. They want to know that if they push you or lean on you, that you are not going to fall over and cave in to what they want. Google “Corey Wayne Women Bluff To Test Your Strength.”

They want you to act like more of a man than they do. A man is supposed to be the leader and gently lead the interaction to where he wants it to go. Ultimately, a man and a woman who like each other eventually end up having sex. That is after all, the objective of seduction. The purpose of a date is to create a fun filled, romantic opportunity for sex to happen. Biologically, men and women are driven to mate with the most dominant member of the opposite sex. Attractive and healthy bodies are indicative of people with strong genes who will produce strong offspring that can survive to adulthood and reproduce.

On my website, (UnderstandingRelationships.com), and YouTube Channel, (CoachCoreyWayne), I discuss questions from people just like you who are implementing what I teach.

Are you one of those guys that has said more than once: Why is it that the women I want never want me, and the ones I don’t want are crazy about me?

Have you ever had women flake on you and cancel dates at the last minute for BS reasons?

Has she ever said she just wanted to be friends after telling you a few weeks before that she loved you?

Do you have a hot girl “friend” that you would like to turn into a girlfriend? Google “Corey Wayne How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend” and “Corey Wayne Stuck In The Friendship Zone? How To Turn A Girl Friend Into A Girlfriend” and “Corey Wayne Asking Friends To Become Girlfriends.”

Are you a really nice guy that always gets dumped for the bad boy by your ladies? Google “Corey Wayne Why Nice Guys Finish Last” and “Nice Guy Finishes Last… Again” and “You’re Too Much Of A Nice Guy.”

This book is for those guys that have met a woman and could not ever seem to get to her front porch or meet her for a first date. It is for those guys that have maybe met a woman, went out on a first date and thought everything was going great, but then cannot seem to ever get her on the phone again. It is for those guys who have met a woman they thought seemed really interested and she gave them a phone number, but then they cannot seem to get her on the phone, she has lame excuses as to why she can’t see him this week, or she is always busy. It is for those guys that may have been dating a woman for a while and were spending a lot of time together, but then all of a sudden, she started cutting the dates short, she starts calling/texting/messaging less and less, she has other things going on, or she is just not as available as she used to be.

This book is also for guys that are married. The first thing a 3% man learns is that the courtship never stops. Google “Corey Wayne The Courtship Never Ends.”

Google “Corey Wayne 3 Ways To Seduce Women.”

After the date, I did nothing all afternoon except fantasize about how the rest of my life was going to be: Where we were going to live, how beautiful our kids were going to be, what it would be like making love to her, and on and on. How many times have you thought that way when meeting a woman who knocked your socks off? She called me later on that night and we talked for hours. (What I should have done was get off the phone and set the next definite date. I would have built more sexual anticipation that way.) As the days went by, she just kept calling me and was really aggressive. We went out for lunch the next week and met out for drinks a few times. An important tip is to treat a woman like a lover always, never a friend, or she will assume you are gay, weak, lack confidence, etc., and generally not a catch. If you act like a nice guy and do lunches and movies, but never make a physical move to kiss her, etc., usually by the second or third date, you’ll get the lets just be friends speech. Men who are successful and have choice with women plan evening dates that can lead to sex at your place or hers. I like to call it a fun-filled romantic opportunity for sex to happen. That is, after all, the whole point of seduction – to get closer and closer to her, until you end up inside of her.

Agreeing to or making group dates with her or your friends almost always leads to you getting cock-blocked and rejected. I learned that lesson the hard way too many times. No group dates until she’s officially your girlfriend and in love with you. It interferes with a woman’s ability to bond with you emotionally. Women are also afraid of being labeled a slut by their friends. Therefore, if you plan group dates, her fear of being labeled a slut if she sleeps with you right away will get in the way of seducing her successfully.

Google “Corey Wayne Science Proves Women Are More Attracted To Men Whose Feelings Are Unclear.”

A few weeks later, I met a girl who just blew me away. I was intoxicated with her beauty and sex appeal. I looked her right in the eyes the night we met and said with 100% certainty, “you’re intoxicating to look at.” She was and still is to this day one of the most beautiful, sexy, charming and fun women on the planet. We dated for a few weeks, and then things started getting a little squirrelly. She started out calling me every day, and I acted as though I knew what was really going on, even though I still had a lot to learn. Then she became less available and started telling me things that didn’t make any sense when I asked her out. One example I remember is: I’m not sure where I am able to be at this time in my life. I thought to myself: What the hell does that mean? She told me about an operation she might have to have and other things going on that were supposedly hindering her spending time with me. She never did have the operation, and I heard from mutual friends that she had been out on the town with an ex-boyfriend. What was really going on was I was starting to over-pursue, become too available, talking on the phone too much, instead of in person, letting her walk all over me, etc.

Why You Need To Read This Book More Than Once So I picked up my stack of books again, and I must have read through them 15 times. I found that I had missed a lot of information. Studies show that people only retain 7-10% of what they read after reading it. That is why I am going to recommend you read this book 10-15 times if you really want to understand this material and have the relationship of your dreams. Repetition is the mother of skill, and you must understand all aspects of pickup, dating and relationships to be successful long term. Guys who read my book, website articles, newsletters and videos, but who are still are having problems; usually don’t know the material in this book well enough.

Later in this book, I will go into extensive detail about body language that attracts women and how to emulate it, but using proper body language, facial expressions and voice tone will make you appear to give off the same vibe and energy as the captain of the football team does. Google “Corey Wayne Body Language That Attracts Women.” It’s walking and acting exactly like a dominant alpha male walks. Everyone can feel when a dominant male or female walks into a room. It’s like moths to a light bulb!

I went over and started talking to my friend, and noticed her looking at me the whole time. She was eagerly hoping we would talk. She wanted me, and it was written all over her face. I finally turned and asked her name, and then she asked mine. She also told me that she had noticed me sitting behind her the day before, and described what I had been wearing. That, in and of itself told me that she was very attracted to me. With her eye contact, her body language, her attention to me, and many other little signs, I knew without a doubt that she had that high level of attraction. I had come to a place in my life where I had been living these things for so long that my own personal radar was sharp. I also somehow knew she was single. This is the place you can get to, if you follow this material. It’s a place where you don’t have to think about it any more, it just becomes a part of who and what you are. You walk around with this total air of confidence, and women will notice.

A woman knows in about 3 seconds if you make the cut or not. You must be a 5 or better on a scale of 1 to 10 in order to have a chance with her. If you are a 4 or below in her eyes, you ain’t got a chance. Move on. Since I coach men from all over the world for a living, most guys spend way too much time interacting with, or being hung up on, women who have little to no romantic attraction for them. The average guy, since he does not know what he’s doing and how attraction works, is literally talking women right out of sleeping with him. If you frequent bars and nightclubs… watch, observe and listen. You will see a woman be excited to talk to a guy, but within a few minutes, she’s trying to get away and he has no idea! You can verify everything I teach by watching men and women interact. It’s fascinating to people watch.

I looked right at her and asked her to dinner the next night, with a specific time and place. She will tell you that my presence and confidence left her no choice but to accept. She said, “I couldn’t say no.” She told me that no one had ever asked her out by being so direct and sure of himself. She also told me later that guys had been coming up to her all week, with the: Hey, would you like to get dinner or lunch and get to know each other type of line. But the way they went about it said immediately that they were weak and had no confidence. They weren’t direct and they gave no specifics, leaving it wide open. I just said: Let’s go to dinner, at this time, at this place, and she went along with it. Definite dates are the subtle difference that makes all the difference when it comes to setting dates women actually keep.

That, by the way, is how to remain mysterious and cause a woman to be even more curious about you and romantically interested in you by the end of your date.

We communicated, which is a major point in relationships. Google “Corey Wayne How To Communicate With Women Effectively.”

If two people truly love each other and want to be happy with their choice to go their separate ways, I do not think it is the loving thing to do to cut one another off from all communication. I actually think that makes it harder to heal. The hard part about a relationship ending is the finality of it all. Going from being each other’s best friend and lover to no longer speaking is not being loving in my opinion. It just seeks to hurt the other person. Many people feel that trying to hurt the other person will make them feel better.

I think sharing your feelings with each other when a relationship ends is very helpful and important to the healing process. The purpose of an intimate relationship, in my opinion, is to love each other and to help each other grow and become more. You’re there to meet each other’s needs. The whole purpose of a relationship is you go there to give. The only thing we lost when our relationship ended was the physical intimacy.

I read once that only 3% or 3 out of 100 men understand women. In my experience, this is an accurate figure. If you want relationship heartaches to be over and to become one of the 3% of men that understand women, then read and apply the principles that are here. Then go back and read them again to retain the knowledge. When you think you have it down pat, read it again.

The purpose of my life is to help others grow and become more. I don’t want anyone to have to grow up in a loveless family like I did. It sucks. I did not enjoy my childhood very much. By understanding this, you can at least be in a relationship with someone that you absolutely love, treasure, and adore. I can teach you how to have a great relationship and keep the perfect girl attracted long term, but I can’t make you stay in love with them. They can help you to understand the type of man that you are totally capable of becoming and even become that man. At the same time, you inspire and help her grow into everything she is capable of becoming as a woman. If the relationship reaches a point where it is no longer an opportunity for both people to continue growing together, then it’s time to move on. "When you meet someone whose soul isn't aligned with yours... send them love and move on." ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer.

Google “Corey Wayne How To Attract The Perfect Woman.”

“The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it.” ~ Michael Yon. What is the quickest way to gain someone’s attention? Remove yours. If a woman is too sure of you, if she thinks she can walk all over you, her attraction drops.

Most of the time, women won’t call you and ask you out. They’ll simply call to say, “I had a great time the other night. I was thinking about you. Hey, this is really random…” and then proceed to talk about some innocuous subject. Think of dating like playing poker. You simply want to hold your cards close to your vest so she reveals her cards first. When women are uncertain or unclear of your interest, they will put themselves into your orbit by contacting you. When a woman starts chasing you by initiating contact first, (usually after the 2nd or 3rd date on average), it causes her to start chasing you more and more. She’ll call, text, email, message, etc. more and more as the weeks go by. It’s always better if a woman thinks that she wants you a little more than you want her. When that happens, talk for only a few minutes and then ask, “Hey when are you free to get together again?” and make your next date. You should always assume that when a woman reaches out to you, she’s really trying to make it easy for you to make another date to get together.

How do you know when a woman is open to being kissed? As you are talking and you are sitting close, her knee may be touching yours, she may be touching your arm or body, she may be leaning toward you, standing so close that her body is bumping yours, etc., then as she’s talking slowly, move your eyes from looking into hers to looking at her lips, then back to her eyes, slowly back to her lips and then into her eyes again over the course of 5-7 seconds. If she looks at your lips at any time while you are doing this, it means she’s ready to be kissed. Do it! If you wait and hesitate too long, she will lose attraction and assume you are not worthy.

If you hesitate, you will masturbate.

Women like a guy who has options with women, but don’t rub it directly in her face.

So if she says, “how many other women are you dating?” say, “I don’t kiss and tell, but none of those girls are as awesome as you are, honey,” with a James Bond smirk on your face. That’s all. Keep it simple, charming, playful and little vague. Let her fill in the blanks in her mind.

It is all about the energy and the confidence the guy exudes. I’m sure every guy has had this experience – whenever they are dating someone, every girl wants them. When they are single, no one wants to date them. Women have this radar. When a woman sees a guy with a woman, especially another beautiful woman, she wonders: Hmmm…what’s that guy got? Women are very competitive in that respect.

Why You Should Not Get Advice From Women about Women When I was having trouble understanding women, I remember going to my women friends for advice. I figured: Hey, they’re women, so they should have a clue and be able to help me out, right? Wrong. The advice they gave me seemed sound, and it meshed with what I had always thought about women. This sometimes pisses women off, but the truth is, the average woman does not understand what attracts them to one guy vs. another. What they say they want in a man is not what they actually date and stay with.

Google “Corey Wayne Men: Beware Of The Bitchy Woman.”

Women will chase you if you give them the space to miss you by not chasing them.

If a woman is chasing you, she can’t be getting rid of you. Why chase women when women not only are dying to chase you, but they’ve been training, conditioning, thinking, feeling and acting as the pursuer of masculine love and presence their whole lives? Men who chase women get rejected because the very act of chasing a woman is a submissive feminine quality.

Most of your romance novels have a very basic formula to them. You can even go to the manuscript submission pages for the publishing houses and find what that formula is: Boy meets girl. Boy usually treats girl with indifference. Girl finds boy contemptible, yet cannot seem to stay away from him. Girl and boy fight the growing attraction. Boy ends up with girl in a very romantic ending.

When you ask a woman what she wants, what she says she wants and what she actually emotionally responds to are two different things. When you ask a woman what she wants in a guy, she will usually respond with something like: Well, I want a man that wines me, dines me, and buys me flowers. When you treat her that way, she blows you off and for some reason goes out with a guy who does none of those things for her. Everybody has seen the guy that’s dating a beautiful woman and is kind of a jerk to her. So what is it that attracts her to the bad boy and causes her to blow off the nice guy? Google “Corey Wayne Women Want A Man Who Is A Challenge.”

The simple answer to that is the nice guy is easy. She can completely have her way with him. He’s not strong. He’s not centered. He acts more like a woman than a man. Emotionally, that does not make her feel safe or that he could actually protect her. It says to her that he is untrustworthy, and that basically he will do or say anything just to make her happy. She won’t trust his masculine core, because if he won’t stand up for himself to her, and if she were ever in any physical danger, he’d bolt and leave her to defend herself.

A woman wants someone who is a partner, someone who can take the direction in the relationship. An alpha male is a leader. A man’s job is to lead the interaction to where HE WANTS it to go.

It’s like when you call a woman you have just met and you ask her out. Instead of saying: Well, gee, do you think maybe you’d like to go out with me sometime? Basically, what that tells a woman is: I’m not really confident, and I really don’t think I’m good enough for you, but I’m hoping that maybe you’ll have pity on me and grace me with your presence on a date.