Tessie’s Comments (group member since Sep 18, 2025)

Tessie’s comments from the Everything Everything All At Once group.

If my mother was raped i'd rather be dead as well instead of her going through the trauma.

Lillian wrote: "And even if the baby's life has a higher chance unsuccessful and them being poor, isn't having any kind of life better than just killing the baby??"

That was merely a fun additional fact that supports pro-life opinion. There were so many other points i made that are way more important. I'm just giving you reasons to think about other than 'is kiling a baby'. You have to think about both sides, wha thte baby's life will be life when its older, and wha tthe mother's life will be like. I live on a farm, and i raise animals from egg or baby to adult, and if their quality of life is no longer sufficient, we cull them. Its really sad and extremely hard to do, and i understand humans are different, but in certain cases it is better for everyone involved to prioritize the wellbeing over just 'life'.

You seem upset. The adoption system shouldn't be horrible, yes, but right now it is. It is very horrible, in fact i know a foster child who died from neglect. Trust me, its not worht living through. I've lived through abuse personally, and i would rather have been aborted at a lot of times. You might think tortured life is better than certain death, but i can assure you many people disagree. Also, some women don't have family members who will help, remember how i said women who get abortions are most likely under the national poverty level? Don't you think if they had family or friends willing to help them they wouldn't be under the national poverty level?

The fetus is human species. It is not a legal human. According to the law, they do. I'm not sayiing a fetus doesn't deserve life, i'm saying that according to the law, abortion is not murder.

See the difference is why can a fetus not feel pain until 24 weeks? Becaus etheir brain is not developed enough. People who have conditions where they don't feel pain have conscious thinking and a working brain. This isn't the case for fetuses under 24 weeks. And adult humans who's brains do not function are called 'brain dead' and yes we reserve the legal right to cut them off life support when we'd like.

You seem to be pro-birth. Does this mean you support what happened to Adrianna Smith, and how she died because she wasn't allowed an abortion?

I agree with Rita. Abortion should be okay in times of need.
To the people who claim abortion is murder, abortion is killing a future baby yes, but fetuses are not legal human until they are born, and considering murder is a legal term used only to refer to legal humans, abortion is not murder.
For those saying she should put the child up for adoption, one in three kids who go through the fostercare system will be neglected and one in six will be abused. There are millions of kids currently waiting to be adopted and until they are they live in horrible conditions. On top of the that, the mother still has to go through pregnancy which takes a toll on their body, ESPECIALLY if its a child. Child pregnancies are way more likely to result in death for both victims.
For those thinking a fetus can feel pain, therefore it's inhumane, most abortion is done medicinally, not the way commonly advertised, as well as this is done long after 95% of abortions.
Most abortions are performed on women below the national poverty level, a lot are homeless and can't provide a safe home for a child.
Almost all abortions are done to women in their twenties, which statistics show children who are born to women in their early twenties typically get a lower education and have a rathe runsuccessful life.

So far we have 816 points! all together

omg cheer

Lily wrote: "I always wear mine up except for fancy events. When my hair is down it just bugs me lol🤣🤣🤣"

True lol

✧E l l i · R o s e✧ wrote: "it is - but that's what our bodies as females are designed to do!"

To be able to do.

Hair downnnn I’m ugly with it up lol

Selena wrote: "I also already have names picked sometimes I don’t understand how people struggle with baby names"

I wanna name my girl after my mom(if I adopt a child young enough) Deanine.

Rita wrote: "If you see some of the red flags people have in guys nowadays. Well they r like eats noodles, talks to his mom, breathes air, is alive, lives on earth, is vegan, vegetarian, or an omnivore. So basi..."

oop guilty- kidding im js gay lmao

SecondMist # SAJA BOYS!!#❤️ wrote: "mine are

lazy

abusive

always cheating on girls

doesn't really like u

hates pets

never ever happy

has a very very bad temper

never texts back

hates kids

always avoiding hanging out

as..."

Hates Charlie Kirk!??!

Someone who has critical thinking and will talk and debate logically with meee
When they text first, reach out first, anything bro
If they are ambitious, i dont want someone with unreasonable or no plans for the future..

I want to adopt kids. Pregnancy is scary and probably not for me. I dont care how many it ends up being lol

Katniss wrote: "At least 2 I’d feel so bad to have just one, cause they’d be lonely. Me already having names picked out at 13. 😆"

bruh i'd be an only child wdym lonely

(Can we have a green flags one or things we like in guys/girls one?)

Coming from an aromantic date for fun (yes I know horrible) person:
1. Doesn’t understand personal space. I can only enjoy being together if I know what it’s like to be alone, if that makes sense. I don’t mind clingy, I do mind needy.
2. Illogical or only thinks with emotions. I’d like to think I’m a logical person and I will always be there for people, however I need someone I can logically talk to without it sounding offensive.
3. I like soulmates as a book trope. I don’t know if I’m getting married. I dislike when we’re dating for three days and they’re planning our wedding I’m sorry it’s uncomfortable.
I think that’s really it. I’m a flirty person and i like to have fun and stuff, if I feel trapped in a relationship I will end it lol.