Limerence


Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love
Living with limerence: A guide for the smitten
The Limerent Mind: How to Permanently Beat Limerence and Shine (Limerence Recovery Book 1)
Love and Limerence: Harness the Limbicbrain
Dealing with Limerence: Practical techniques from alternative healing modalities to control your addiction to another person
Smitten: Romantic Obsession, the Neuroscience of Limerence, and How to Make Love Last
Obsessive Love: When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go
How to Break Your Addiction to a Person: When--and Why--Love Doesn't Work
Facing Love Addiction: Giving Yourself the Power to Change the Way You Love ― A Self-Help Guide on Overcoming Codependency and Toxic Relationships
The Sorrows of Young Werther
The Great Gatsby
El túnel
Limerence: The state of being infatuated with another person.
The Blind Owl
Conversations with Friends
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Best Comics of 2017/2018
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Nicolette Polek
It was my limerence for other people that afflicted me, my limerence to be in the future, limerence for the so-called beauty of the past, limerence for other places I had no business living in, limerence for stew when I was eating pie, a limerence so strong that I was always in a world that didn’t even exist.
Nicolette Polek, Bitter Water Opera

Toxic love and limerence overlap in that the more "challenging" the potential partner seems to obtain, the more alluring that person may inevitably become to you. Love activates reward centers of the brain, creating a euphoric dopamine high that is extremely difficult to detox from, and in adversity-ridden relationships, dopamine tends to flow more readily in the brain when the rewards aren't as predictable such as in a toxic relationship. Psychologists have discovered that the brains of people ...more
Shahida Arabi MA, Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse

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