So, let's consider this question for a moment. If 100% of the people around you were interested in connecting with you, could you even stand it. Think of all you would have to remember about those who are marginal connections at best. I don't believe any of us could survive having to be a friend with everyone.
Therefore the question before you is, can you survive on just 70% of the people around you connecting with you? If so, the next question is, are you so picky that only the "right" 70% will work for you? If you only want to connect with your idea of the perfect connection you are going to be extremely disappointed every time that type of person doesn't consider you their perfect connection. Then you lose out on them, as well as those you could have invested in.
If you can just allow the laws of attraction to work, and quit specifying your desired connections, you will be surprised at the results you will have and the feelings of value that come with these outsiders wanting to connect!
Published on February 15, 2011 16:53