3 Surefire Ways to be Kinder to Yourself

It's a New Year and a New You.  Time to look at and let go of habits that aren't useful to you. And one of those may be that you are too hard on yourself. How do you silence your harsh critic?

 Here are 3 surefire ways:

. Think of what you do right, not wrong. It's easy to keep looking at what you don't have, rather than what you do. Or what mistake you have made, rather than the fact that you tried. Every mistake has a lesson attached to it. Learn the lesson and move on.

. Think positive, what good thing do you want to bring into your life? Keep envisioning what you want--a new job, a new guy, a new home...whatever it is, keep that in the forefront of your mind. Don't get caught up with what you have now. 

.Say YES to an opportunity that seems promising. Keep your eyes open for new experiences coming your way.  If your knee-jerk reaction is to say NO, change that to a YES.  You never know what is just around the corner for you.  

All of these things help you to go with the positive and be kinder to yourself. After all,

YOU DESERVE THE BEST!