GUEST POST! Introducing…Patrick Kuduwa
Hello there readers. I am here for the first time to tell you guys a little bit about me. So this is a story all about how I skipped immigration and got into the UK. As you can tell, I am a joker…
On a serious note, I am Patrick. I’m the Damsel’s boyfriend. You think I am amazing already, don’t you? She does make me sound pretty awesome…
I have recently turned 21 and it was like the best feeling I have ever had because now I feel grown up.
I am a laid back person and I like to teach people to try and not take life so seriously, no matter what happens. You would be surprised at what you can do in life by not worrying or caring so much.
I know I am not the brightest person you could meet, but through my easy-going ways and not worrying about life, I have still managed to achieve many things in my 21 years. I have managed to get 13 GCSE’s, 3 A-Levels, and I’m currently on my way to a degree – I’ve also received many awards and trophies. I tried not to worry about how much work I have to do or how much work I received, instead I focused on knowing the basics to get me through, and learning the complicated things if and when along the way. I feel in life you cannot control everything and most things you just have to let happen on their own for the best. Trying to control everything and worrying about things can turn a person into the opposite person to who they can be and want to be in life.
Yes I know there are some things in life that you have to take seriously, or you’ll get hurt or suffer or DIE! (Only if you are THAT stupid). With University work, I try to take it more serious. I take all the advice and relationships I share with my friends and family seriously, so that they don’t see me as a joke. One thing I like to take seriously once in a while is taking a lead in a project, to prove to myself and others that I can be a leader, which I think we all should be good at. If you feel you will always be a sheep in your life, I think it is not a problem, though. You just have to be good at whatever you choose to do.
However, I feel you can only do what makes you happy. If wanting to take control of things in your life makes you happy and makes you, ‘you’, then don’t change a bit. Be happy. If you want to try be different, learn to be easy going, and experience different things in life then I recommend saying ‘Oh well’ to things once in a while, and smile at the choices you’ve made without caring too much.
Having a balance of both things would be the best too, but I would find it difficult to keep things equal. Don’t listen to me though, just see my advice as an alternative when you feel life is kicking you in the balls.
Until next time, Humans. Stay tuned to hear more about my wild life.
