The Second Principle of Boaz

We are continuing our series on the "Seven Principles of Boaz" in preparation for Valentine's Day and my book release, "The Boaz Factor: When You Are Ready for the Right One!"  In the book I talk about how to recognize Mr. Right, we call him "Boaz", when he enters your life. We will go through all Seven Principles of Boaz on Monday's and Wednesday's between now and Valentine's Day. Please comment, ask questions and most of all, enjoy!

Principle Two– Boaz notices when you strive for the best and are not willing to accept whatever, whenever.

When you have set goals for yourself, it requires you to come up with a strategy to get there. That strategy requires focus, determination and great discipline. Although those things start within, it will surface with noticeable action.

Ruth had one goal in mind: Find enough grain to keep her and Naomi fed. The Bible says that Boaz came to the field and noticed someone who he had not seen before. She was working at a pace that caused him to stop and take notice. Her focus and determination made him pause and inquire. When he asked his foreman who she was, he gained information about her work ethic. When he was told that she asked to work in the better part of the field, Boaz was impressed.

Something about you should cause a potential Boaz to stop and inquire about who you are. Not just because you are pretty, but because there is something different about you that stands out amongst everyone else. This something different has nothing to do with lips, hips, or finger tips.

Your "Boaz" will not only take a look at you, he will see you. Is there a difference? I believe there is. When someone looks at you they are looking over external things. When they see you, they are gathering enough information about you to get a picture of who you are. They are looking beyond the surface.

If this potential Boaz is really interested in you, he has been watching you for a minute. He has an appreciation for what he has seen so far. Your demeanor, your attitude and your focus and yes, your style!