lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections
Hi folks,
Went to a munch last night and while there I thought about a few things that munch groups need to consider to make a group event work well. There were 30 people there and we did have a loft area of a restaurant, but it was a sports bar during a basketball game and it was loud! No one could really talk without yelling and for a group of people who may not know one another or haven’t seen each other in a month or more, that’s such a negative for me. Then the leaders insisted on trying to do introductions – in that loud environment and kept yelling at people to speak louder. I’m sorry I’m not shouting that I’m slave at the top of my lungs in a sports bar environment. Ugh! And the third thing is that the table was one long table. I felt bad for the people trapped against the wall and had to make at least 10 people get up in order to go the to bathroom. Poorly set up by the restaurant and the group, I’m afraid.
So my tips if you host a munch, find a quieter environment, allow mingling by spreading the tables apart a bit and if it’s too loud to do introductions you can do something else (I mean there were tons of name games for school and camp, pick one!) like asking people to introduce themselves to 3 people they don’t know before they leave. This encourages the mingling and makes others feel welcome, in my opinion. Yeah. That’s my thoughts. Anyone else feel munches need a revamp? What would you like to see come out of your munches?
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