Yes or no

Sometimes you say yes to everything.
Sometimes you say no to everything.
Those are the extremes, the "I'll try anything!" or the "I'm so burned out I can't do anything" ends of the spectrum.
In the middle, it's more difficult. Figuring out how to balance time, energy, ability, interest, ethics, and so on. Thinking about whether it's a yes or no, and not deciding too hastily.