Learn to Love Yourself First Before Loving Others
How well do you understand the word “Love”? Love is an emotion, feeling, and thought? It does not matter. What you have to know is that love does not only refer to the love for others, but also for yourself. Love shows your perspective; how you think about yourself, how you think about others, or how you think about something. It makes you do what you do. It keeps something or some people together, and it especially keeps you away from falling apart.
If you do not love yourself, you will never know how to love others. You will not know what others want or if what you do for them is what they want. You might keep doing things for others. But how will you know that what others receive from you is love?…..If you have not experienced anything related to love by yourself.
Life is hard sometimes. You have to believe in yourselves, believe that you are important, talented, and that you can be anything you want as long as it is good for you and others around you. You are the person who can do everything on your own. Stop trying to be what others want you to be. If your life only depends on what society wants, you might never find the true value of yourself or the reasons why you have become who you are.
You should never let anyone bring you down or make you lost. What others think about you does not always matter. Some people have never talked to you and experienced anything with you. They do not know you. You have to know yourself before making others know or understand you. Being with your lovely family, will also help you know more about yourself. They have been with you. They have seen every side of you. They can be the ones who encourage you to be the person you want to love.
Appreciate every moment of your life. Believing that everything happens for a reason might help you understand the way things are better. If you think you were happier when you were kids. You might have to think about it and ask yourself why you were so happy and what made you be that happy. Do those things still happen in your life? Or how will you gain them back?
When you make mistakes or accidentally hurt someone mentally or physically, you have to let yourself free from the guilt that might happen. The guilt might lie within you and make you want to take care of others’ feelings instead of yours. Of course, you have to be responsible for what you do, but once you have done your best to fix it, you should not be stuck in it anymore.
Once you love yourself, you will be loved by others without even knowing. Your love will be a good influence to others around you. Do not forget to treat yourself as you want others to treat you because that will make you be happy no matter how hard your life is.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
If you do not love yourself, you will never know how to love others. You will not know what others want or if what you do for them is what they want. You might keep doing things for others. But how will you know that what others receive from you is love?…..If you have not experienced anything related to love by yourself.
Life is hard sometimes. You have to believe in yourselves, believe that you are important, talented, and that you can be anything you want as long as it is good for you and others around you. You are the person who can do everything on your own. Stop trying to be what others want you to be. If your life only depends on what society wants, you might never find the true value of yourself or the reasons why you have become who you are.
You should never let anyone bring you down or make you lost. What others think about you does not always matter. Some people have never talked to you and experienced anything with you. They do not know you. You have to know yourself before making others know or understand you. Being with your lovely family, will also help you know more about yourself. They have been with you. They have seen every side of you. They can be the ones who encourage you to be the person you want to love.
Appreciate every moment of your life. Believing that everything happens for a reason might help you understand the way things are better. If you think you were happier when you were kids. You might have to think about it and ask yourself why you were so happy and what made you be that happy. Do those things still happen in your life? Or how will you gain them back?
When you make mistakes or accidentally hurt someone mentally or physically, you have to let yourself free from the guilt that might happen. The guilt might lie within you and make you want to take care of others’ feelings instead of yours. Of course, you have to be responsible for what you do, but once you have done your best to fix it, you should not be stuck in it anymore.
Once you love yourself, you will be loved by others without even knowing. Your love will be a good influence to others around you. Do not forget to treat yourself as you want others to treat you because that will make you be happy no matter how hard your life is.
To read more, please visit www.christlewisbooks.com
Published on December 19, 2014 05:50
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