Doing Your Best Despite Resistance


We teach our kids to do what’s right. This includes treating others fairly, and to expect to be treated fairly ourselves in return.


Some of the hardest discussions I’ve had with my daughter over the years have come around her frustration that this basic rule doesn’t seem to apply in the world today. The news is full of stories about discrimination based on race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or other similar factors. And in the workplace, we still see much too much inequity based on gender.


What can you as an individual do to navigate this? Here are a few thoughts.



Start by doing great work. Always be proud of the work you do, and make sure what you do adds value to the organization.
Take time to blow your own horn. There’s no music if you don’t make it, so be sure others know about the important work you do.
Look to leaders for guidance. If you feel you are not being treated fairly, speak to your manager or to their manager. Be prepared to present your case and to do this in a calm, cool manner. No emotions, just the facts, ma’am.
We’re in this together. As women, we need to be better about helping each other succeed. Seek out other women, ask their advice, and support them in their careers. Many organizations have affinity groups for women. This is a great place to discuss your situation with others who may share your concern and be able to offer useful counsel.
Understand the power of the Web. What’s on the Internet, is enduring, not endearing. Be careful what and where you post about your specific job-related issues. But take advantage of the expertise, wisdom, and community you can find on the Web.
Sometimes you just need to move on. Sisyphus in Greek legend kept rolling a boulder uphill forever, but you don’t have to. If you’re in a situation where you don’t feel you’re being treated fairly and there is little hope for resolution or advancement, leave. If a business you patronize is not treating women fairly, let them know. Find another place to shop. We send an important message when we vote with our feet and our dollars.

The world keeps moving. If we don’t keep moving with it, we’ll wind up further behind. Try to work from within to effect change, but if that doesn’t work, take the actions you need to keep your career moving forward. It’s the best way to be fair to yourself.


-Linda Popky, President, Leverage2Market Associates

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Published on August 28, 2014 11:24
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