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Start to see your 'No's as an affirmative 'Yes' to your life! Every time you allow someone to cross a personal boundary you are giving them permission to keep on doing 'whatever' they are doing and saying to yourself that you do not deserve better.
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Remember you are not being mean to anyone by setting boundaries. When you don't set boundaries you are being mean to yourself instead. It is a great self-kindness to say: "
No I do not accept 'this' anymore"....
Published on June 22, 2014 08:41