Help Me! Age Is Making a Difference

Help me out here. I’m a pretty progressive guy. When it comes to relationships, I’m all about telling folks that if what they do floats their boat and doesn’t hurt anyone else, go for it. I’ve written many posts about May/December relationships, and feel there’s nothing inherently wrong with them as long as the couples can get over any age obstacles and connect in a loving way. 

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So, why in God’s name am I having so much trouble with this couple? Am I the only one? And, here’s the worst part, logically there’s really nothing wrong with it if they are truly happy. So, why is it that it makes me so incredibly uncomfortable?

Kyle is 31, and his girlfriend, Marjorie, is 91. If you watch the video you might agree with me that he really is into older women and not after Marjorie’s finances or inheritance or looking for a Sugar Mama (or Granny). On top of that, he’s also seeing other women including 68-year old Anna. In the video Kyle swaps spit with both women, and I cringe. I don’t like this about me! Why can’t I be happy for them if they are happy with the arrangement?

Please, someone tell me what I’m missing about myself.  How do you feel bout Kyle and his lovers? Can you either help me find the underlying problem I have yet to identify, or maybe convince me it’s all good?