Call Him Maybe

So, Miley Cyrus… you either love her antics or you hate them. She’s making waves. She’s getting air time. Her name’s in the headlines, and her new album is climbing the charts. So, does this mean she’s all grown up? Well, if you look at her relationship antics, I’d have to say…not quite.

Apparently her ex, actor Liam Hemsworth, was spotted with actress Eiza Gonzalez, just one day after he and Cyrus announced their split. As a result, Cyrus decided to hand out her ex’s cell number to complete strangers at a music festival. 

So, here’s my take on this. Maybe he was a jerk. Maybe he hurt her emotionally. I don’t know, but I could surmise he did, yet that doesn’t give Hannah MonTwerker the right to pass out his personal cell number to fans…especially since the couple had already called it quits. Yes, Hemsworth hooked up with another woman too soon, but he  was no longer committed to Cyrus. He’s a full-grown, big boy.

When you are hurt in a relationship, often it feels like the best thing to do is to hurt back. But, that doesn’t fix anything. You don’t feel better. You just feel good for a moment because you hurt the person who hurt you. Grown up people need to have grown up relationships, which include grown up responses to tough situations. So, wag your tongue, lick a sledge hammer and get naked as much as you want, Miley, but grow up while you’re at it.