When Groups Go Horribly Wrong

I have been trying to get over this in my own way, but without talking about it, and it isn’t working. It was only yesterday, although it seems longer ago than that. I suppose because it was so intense.


Tea PartyEveryone has all these warnings about meeting friends online: they could be stalkers, they could be pretending to be someone else, they could be chainsaw wielding mass murderers…they could be “bad people.”


What if something happens, and a little of the above is true, say, they could be pretendin...

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Published on June 20, 2013 12:16
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Danni Beautifully put, Wendy. Please don't think though that there was anything specific to do with you about the whole business - you just happened to be in the firing line at one point, like many others were too.

Sadly, I think the whole situation could have been rectified with a bit of honesty. If that person had come forward and said "I'm sorry, I lied about aspects of my life, and it got out of control" a lot of the group (in fact, probably everyone in the group) would have been supportive IMO. He came across as such a fun and kind person, I really don't believe that that aspect of his personality was deception. Ironically, it was those bits of his life that nobody could have cared less about (what he actually looked like, what he did for a job, what relationship he was in) that led to the whole mess in the first place.

I wish things hadn't turned out the way they have :(

D xx


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