Socializing the Males Revisited: Is Hefner a Lady's Friend or Ladykiller?

A reader with the unromantic name of theobrominelove  takes me to task for my recent essay here on the failure to socialize the males. I welcome the criticism. Hat in hand, I will answer as honestly and earnestly as I may, and leave you, dear readers, to judge between us. theobrominelove 's bold comments are in bold.

“You seem to say that as chastity and gallantry are scorned, men do not know any better than to behave badly towards women.”

I don’t think I said anything about “not knowing any ...