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And yeah, #4 happened on an MMORPG I used to play. The site owners ended up deleting a lot of the changes they made because it led to MORE rule-breaking. -.-
I tried not to rate or review, can't help it. Also I've found many writers are more than happy if I read and review their work. I'll admit I don't hand out two or one stars very often, so my average rating looks high, but that's because I tend to dnf the books that don't engage me. I don't rate books I haven't finished. Who knows, the author may have managed to knock my socks off in the closing pages.
It is fraught though, but then having an active online presence and an opinion is also difficult. I have lost fans through speaking out on certain issues before.
It is fraught though, but then having an active online presence and an opinion is also difficult. I have lost fans through speaking out on certain issues before.

I'm guessing that most people on a site like Goodreads are way smarter than the average bear, and while a thumbs up from someone they trust might go a long way towards helping them pick a book, most would prefer to decide for themselves whether or not they like something. Different strokes for different folks!
I decided not to review early on, but only because I'm a giant wuss, and I want everyone to like me. This might explain my teenage promiscuity...
OMG NENIA! You really are a head shrinker, aren't you?
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I know that feeling. When I finish a book, I want to talk about it!
That's very kind of you to not rate books you don't finish. I do, but that's only because I think the reasons I couldn't get through a book are pretty important. If one of my characters was so repulsive that 90% of the people who started it couldn't make it past the first page, I'd want to know. I'd be crushed, but I'd be more crushed if my book didn't sell well.
If I have lost fans for my thoughts, I haven't noticed. Mostly because there's always so many new friends to be found every day that I don't really care. Someone that closed-minded can't possibly be much fun to talk to, anyway. So cheers, Georgina! :)

I agree! Not everyone is verbal. And while this is nothing to be ashamed of, I think it IS a shame to selectively discriminate against people who, ironically, are among (but do not ENTIRELY COMPRISE) a group of people best able to write coherent and cohesive reviews.
Great point, Derrolyn. That's one of the best things I love about this site. The users are so vigilant about keeping their community a safe and friendly place, and keeping the good in Goodreads, that the jerks and meanies are quickly banned for breaking the rules. No sour apples spoiling this batch of cider, no no.
Hey! I like you. I can be quite mean in my reviews, and you were telling me how nice I am just the other day! The two aren't mutually exclusive. So if you want to review, I don't think you should let something like that stop you. The kind of person who would end a friendship over a bad rating isn't worth having, anyway.
Well, I WAS a psychology major in college... ;)
I have no problems with other people rating a book they didn't finish. You are right, sometimes it's a taste thing but other times it's because of lack of plot, too much telling, irritating characters, or all of the above. :) I dnfed Blood Red Road for those reasons. In fact there have been some books that I've attempted lately that I'm gobsmacked that they even managed to find a publisher.
Real reviews, whatever the rating, are so important. If I find a book that has only glowing five star reviews I'm suspicious. If I'm going to spend money on purchasing a book I don't want to be fooled by pretend reviews. This is why the whole 'be nice and don't say anything negative' just isn't right, or fair.
And yes, that's been my take on losing friends or fans over expression of opinions too. There are so many lovely people on GR, I don't need to deal with the narrow minded ones.
Best to you, Nenia! :):)
Real reviews, whatever the rating, are so important. If I find a book that has only glowing five star reviews I'm suspicious. If I'm going to spend money on purchasing a book I don't want to be fooled by pretend reviews. This is why the whole 'be nice and don't say anything negative' just isn't right, or fair.
And yes, that's been my take on losing friends or fans over expression of opinions too. There are so many lovely people on GR, I don't need to deal with the narrow minded ones.
Best to you, Nenia! :):)

Exactly. I like to read negative reviews because sometimes what didn't work for someone will work for me, or else it might not bother me as much.
Don't worry, Nenia and Georgina I like people who speak their minds so you'll always have me as a friend (whether you want me or not.)

I feel the same way! I was actually a little thrilled when I got my first legit two- and one-star ratings because it made me feel like I was a "real author." It was nice having everyone love my books and all, and I hope I continue to get some 4- and 5-star ratings, but I also really like the fact that my readers feel comfortable enough around me to give me their honest opinion. :)
Blood Red Road was an iffy read for me. I didn't like the liberties she took with the narrative dialog, but the story itself was pretty good. There are definitely some books out there that make me wonder how they got published. I see all these NA books getting adopted by large publishing firms, still riddled with typos, and all I can think is, WHY.
As always, it's a pleasure to discuss things with you. <3

Plus, negative reviews tend to be FUNNY. It's hard to write a funny positive review because the best humor is a little deprecating and cutting. I read one of my one-star reviews and it made me giggle, even though it stung a little. And even if they aren't funny, hey, it's for the readers anyway. And if someone reads that review and decides my book's not for them, well, the original nay-sayer just saved me another negative review. Everyone wins!
I take a look at some of the culprits responsible for getting other authors all fired up, and they're usually pretty witty and tongue-in-cheek. If I AM going to get a one-star review, I definitely would want what they're having!
Awwww, I'm so very happy to have you as a friend MLE. You and your silly cat and Thor pictures, and funny reviews. How could I NOT want to have you in my feed?
MLE wrote: "Georgina wrote: "I have no problems with other people rating a book they didn't finish. You are right, sometimes it's a taste thing but other times it's because of lack of plot, too much telling, i..."
Yay! :D:D
Yay! :D:D
Nenia wrote: "Georgina wrote: "I have no problems with other people rating a book they didn't finish. You are right, sometimes it's a taste thing but other times it's because of lack of plot, too much telling, i..."
Always a pleasure chatting with you too, Nenia! :D:D
Always a pleasure chatting with you too, Nenia! :D:D

EVERYBODY DANCE NOW

Thank you all for my morning chuckle :D:D:D
Thanks lovely Nenia! Have a great day. :):)


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Yep, I'll be joining you with the bashing of the head and crying. It's a writing day for me too. Good luck all, and may the force be with us! :D

...I've already done two of those three. I suppose there's still time for a helicopter to asplode. :/
I like your style. Yes to the helicopter :D:D
I'm working for my pen name today. She's a hard task master, doesn't pay me, and feeds me scraps. :/
I'm working for my pen name today. She's a hard task master, doesn't pay me, and feeds me scraps. :/