On Turning 39—One Time Only

There aren't many jobs where youth is a disadvantage. I believe writing is one of them.

Actually, I don't think someone in their 30s is particularly young. Until recently, the 30s was considered middle-aged. And society in general doesn't consider someone in their 30s young.

But then there's the writing world.

My favorite uncomfortable moment was when I was with a panel of writers 5 years ago. The author next to me rambled on and on with his top piece of writing advice—live first...