Do you assert yourself enough?

Here are some questions to ask yourself to determine if you let your voice be heard when it counts.

Do you find yourself saying yes when you really mean no?

Do you hold yourself back rather than say what you feel?

Do you offer your ideas when you know you can make a difference?

If you have trouble answering any of these questions, you are probably not sharing yourself as fully as you can.

Let's explore why you may be giving your power away instead of asserting yourself. You may be:

Listening to negative mind-talk
We have a critical voice that can stop us from moving forward. Once you spot it, you can diffuse it. Be aware throughout the day of what you are telling yourself. Take on a new thought and step into your power.

Not thinking big enough
You may be thinking too small. Are you aware of all your talents and gifts?
Are you putting them to use? You have a unique destiny to fulfill. When you know that, it is easier to step up and come from a position of strength.

Not saying YES when it matters
There are times to say no, especially when you are spread too thin. But when you know from your head and heart that you need to step up, DO. You don't have to feel confident, just "act as if" you are.