How do you deal with the constant disappointment?

Forum: Support for the ADHD Partner

This week has been a struggle. I am feeling constantly disappointed and ignored. I find little things daily that my ADHD wife didn't follow through on, or didn't listen to me about. 

Does anyone have any suggestions to make things better (other than divorce)?

In person conversations get forgotten, lists and reminders ignored. Intimacy is non-existent. I'm struggling to see what the upside of this marriage is.