Make Peace with Yourself and Everyone Else

Peace with yourself is not something that comes easy to some people. However having peace with yourself is the foundation to building meaningful relationships personally and professionally. Without being at peace with yourself, your life will be frustrated and aggravated in a multiplicity of ways.

Finding peace with yourself is a process. You must cultivate peace within daily and learn to find peace with yourself in small ways throughout your life’s journey. Of course finding peace with yourself in a chaotic world is sometimes easier said than done, but pursuing peace with yourself is undoubtedly worth the investment. In fact making peace with yourself early on in life is one of the greatest and most important investments you will ever make.

You will like yourself better and others will enjoy being around you more when you have taken the time to make peace with yourself. Conversely, when you are troubled within, on edge and irritable about unresolved issues and unfinished business in your own heart and mind, it will manifest and show in the way you treat and deal with others.

Ultimately when you don’t have peace with yourself, you project that disruption and disgruntlement into your relationships (and often unbeknownst to you, project on others the very things you yourself do and are not at peace with about yourself).

Making peace with yourself takes time, attentiveness, sensitivity and grace. When you realize your Creator loves you unconditionally and is patient with you as you evolve and grow along your life’s journey, it sets you at ease and enables you to be at peace with yourself.

Nothing is more reassuring, life affirming and comforting than knowing God above (who is and embodies love) loves you as you are, but at the same time is all-wise, all-knowing, and capable of lifting you up to where you belong once you have embraced the needed inner adjustments within.

As a chiropractor who adjusts, repositions and straightens a spine out of whack; God knows where there are things out of proper alignment in your thinking, emotions and mindsets. Thankfully the Lord of life knows how to restore peace to your heart and mind and teach you how to make peace with yourself and others where there may be strained relationships.

The worst tragedy is when you are bulldozing through life and running over people (going through life with your hair on fire, blazing by, and burning everyone and everything in sight), alienating good people by your poor behavior, stubbornness and self-centered way of life. Making peace with yourself often begins when we awake to the poor way in which we’ve treated others and simultaneously awaken to what an undone, deceptive and devilish person we ourselves have been.

Making peace with yourself requires humility, introspection, a willingness to take a personal inventory, do a progress evaluation, and check up from the neck up. Sometimes stinking thinking can take root in us and spread throughout other areas of our lives, thereby perpetuating our pain and polluting our relationships.

Often we don’t realize why good opportunities vanish in our midst and doors of opportunity suddenly close after they once appeared open. Perhaps this is because people frankly don’t like you, but are kind enough to not flat out tell you.

Making peace with yourself by way of humility and sensitivity will awaken you to the flawed and undone areas of your character needing improvement. Allow God’s grace to enter and perform the work of perfecting and polishing you. Be open to what the Holy Spirit says and shows to you daily.

Don’t feel down about or beat yourself up over past mistakes. You can’t change the past, but you can learn from, correct it, and improve your performance and dealings with people in the future.

As you make peace with yourself, awaken to your flaws, and purpose to do better in the future; doing so from a place of grace. Give yourself mercy and grace. As you do, you will find you can be more gracious, accepting and unconditionally tolerant of others.

The less judgmental you can be toward yourself and others, the closer you are to making peace with yourself. Being judgmental erects walls of division, discord and breaks moments of synchronicity relationally that serendipitously come about to bless us. Where there is strife and envy, every evil is nearby.

Silence and die to jealousy and envy. Be free to be yourself and celebrate others gifts, talents, abilities and accomplishments freely. It takes a great person, someone at peace with themselves, to be able to honor and celebrate others. This is a huge step toward making peace with yourself.

If you’d like to learn more or receive personalized life coaching to help you make peace with yourself, be a better person and live your dreams, please contact me at the email given below.

http://www.PaulFDavis.com – worldwide motivational speaker, author, life coach and global business consultant who has touched 68 countries empowering people to transcend their limitations and live their dreams!

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Published on June 13, 2012 05:00 Tags: peace-with-yourself
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