Stop telling your child to share

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Stop telling your child to share

1. They will develop low self-worth by feeling - I am not as important as the other child

2. They will lose motivation by feeling - What I am doing is not valuable

3. They will become bullies because they will think - If I can be forced to share, I can force others to share

How to teach your child to share - 

Your child will feel like sharing when – 

A: They feel good about themselves
1. Give them unconditional love to build security 
2. Involve them in household chores to build self-esteem

B: When they don’t associate love and power with material things 
1. Don’t give too many gifts – this makes children materialistic
2. Do not bribe your child – this makes children greedy and possessive

C: When they feel like they are in control 
1. Encourage them to make a card or a gift for someone
2. Ask them to suggest a way for 2 children to play with one toy

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