I guess I’m not convinced…

Forum: Anger, Frustration & ADHD

I’ll never be able to inhabit the mind of my ADHD wife and know what it feels like to truly not be able to execute a task. 

But she’ll also never be able to inhabit my mind, and to feel what it’s like to do every task anyway - no matter how much I’d rather not.

So I guess I’m not convinced - I’m not convinced there’s a clear distinction between how loathsome a task is for her that she medically can’t do it (I mean physically there is nothing that prevents her from loading the  dishwasher)  and how loathsome I find the same tasks that I nonetheless do.