Professional Dating Coach Reveals What To Do if She Sends a ‘Spicy’ Pic

A professional dating coach has shared her tips for what to do if you're on the receiving end of a "spicy" picture.

Few people would admit it, but sending photos you wouldn't want mom or dad to see can be a common part of the dating game. Of course, this should probably only happen once you've developed some kind of trustworthy relationship with someone. And, obviously, everything should be done respectively.

But how should a guy respond if he's on the receiving end of a spicy photo from a dating prospect?

Blaine Anderson, a professional dating coach, has given out her tips on social media.

Blaine is here to help.

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Anderson, who attended the University of Arizona before getting to work in the travel industry, launched her dating coaching business, Dating By Blaine, a couple of years ago.

She recently revealed what you should do if you are on the receiving end of a spicy photo. The biggest thing: Delete them if you break up.

"If she sends you spicy pictures, first of all, congrats," Anderson joked.

"But second, never share them with anyone else. Leaking intimate pictures is disrespectful, dishonorable and immature. Even if things end badly, do the right thing, be a gentleman and delete the photos from your phone."

Anderson says that it might seem like simple advice, though not everyone will take it.

'Maybe this seems obvious, but it’s sadly not to many guys. Be the gentleman — what goes around comes around!" she added.

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Anderson, with her 700,000-plus followers, is giving out helpful tips and suggestions on social media daily.

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