How should ADD spouse build trust

Forum: Negotiation and Setting Boundaries

I have not posted in some time, hoping all would improve but it has not. My husband is very angry that I no longer trust him (big surprise when he neglects to inform me of funds used to support his business, lack of communication, and lack of follow through). I have attempted to share with him how trust is built through small actions (following up on what he tells me) but it appears he is so “hurt” by my lack of trust in him that he does not even comprehend. I want to trust him again, but am at a loss of how to tell him how to do things to build that trust again (he is clueless as to what he should do). Recommendations greatly appreciated!