Can You Give an Orgasm?

Yesterday this seemingly simple question came through the About Sexuality Facebook page:

"What gives a woman orgasm?"

Still not understanding what of Facebook is (completely) public and what is (thinly) private, I thought I'd share my response here. It goes like this:

Thanks for your question, which is an interesting one.

First I think we need to ask, can you ever actually give someone an orgasm? That is, is an orgasm something that can be given or is it something that must be experienced?

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