Which One of These Is Not Like the Other: Virginity, the G Spot, and Anal Sex

I don't often go to speak on college campuses but when I do I'm struck by the questions I get. I should say that I consider it one of the goals of any interaction I have as a sex educator that the people I'm talking to have the opportunity to ask the questions they have. And ideally they get some kind of answer too! Of course asking questions can feel risky (thanks systemic oppression and sexual shame) so like most sex educators I give people a variety of ways of asking their questions.

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