​If I don't tell my child that they are wrong who will tell them?

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​If I don't tell my child that they are wrong who will tell them? 

But then I am scared that criticising them will damage their SELF-ESTEEM And CONFIDENCE 

So what should I do? 

Many parents ask me 

My answer is - 

Use the SANDWICH TECHNIQUE to criticise your child. 

That will ensure that your child improves because of your critcism without losing their SELF-ESTEEM And CONFIDENCE 

So what is the SANDWICH technique? 

Sandwich the criticism between two layers of appreciation. 

Like this - 

Step 1 APPRECIATE 

That will make them listen 

Eg. - I really like the way you are learning to ask for what you want nowadays 

Step 2 SUGGEST CHANGES 

That will make them think 

Eg. - But I think if you ask without shouting,  you will be more likely to get what you want 

Step 3 HIGHLIGHT their STRENGTHS 

That will increase their SELF-ESTEEM And MOTIVATION to change 

Eg. - You are a very lovable person so you will be able to do this very easily 

The SANDWICH technique works very well at all ages because it uses NEUROSCIENCE 

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