Do I have to say I LOVE YOU? – they ask me

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​So many parents who love their children a LOT - don’t say “I LOVE YOU”

Do I have to say I LOVE YOU? – they ask me

Yes you do!!

Because the 3 words create MAGIC

Here are the 3 magical things that happen when you say - I LOVE YOU

1. It increases your child’s FOCUS
The question “Am I loved?” is a constant distraction for a child because their survival depends on being loved and treasured.
When you tell your child you love them – you end that distraction and increase their focus.

2. It increases your child’s MOTIVATION
The only thing that motivates us in life is LOVE.
Love is a flood of dopamine and it can make us move mountains.
When children feel unloved – they become demotivated.

3. It increases your child’s CONFIDENCE
When you tell your child you love them – it increases their self-esteem and builds their confidence.
When children feel unloved, they avoid challenges because they lack confidence

If you are struggling to build your child’s focus, confidence and motivation – start saying I LOVE YOU.

Do you say I LOVE YOU?
How many times a day do you say it?
Write the number in comments.

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I LOVE YOU

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