Life’s trivia—Christmas is finally over, a forgotten artist, and conspiracy theories abound

Okay, confess: I could not find a free image of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce.
Life sure is interesting. Today,Jordan took down Christmas decorations in the cottage. That tells you a bitabout how hectic life has been around here. But after all, it’s rodeo season. Ihad truthfully gotten used to the Christmas lights, and now that they’re down,the living area looks a bit bare. Jordan kept the multi-colored lights on pussywillows (sounds a bit garish—you have to see it!) and put my antique lamp onthe timer, so I can turn it on and off remotely.
Biggest bonus: she unearthedfrom the high-up spaces of my closet a wonderful portrait by the late FortWorth artist Emily Guthrie Smith. It is small, maybe 12 x 15, of a winsomelooking young girl—Smith was noted for portraits, particularly those ofchildren. This is not a happy picture, but neither is it sad—more thoughtful. Ihave no recollection of buying it but I must have felt flush at one time, and Iwas as I am now intrigued by this face. I vaguely remember that I wanted to useit for a book cover but couldn’t find it.
And therein is the story: Ithought I lost this painting for some time and since it’s the only originalpainting I own, I was disturbed. The kids seemed to have no memory of it, andthat collection of things in the closet was far beyond my reach. So I was delightedwhen she got it down tonight. Along with this one, she got down a charcoaldrawing of me done when I was about twelve. It is by an artist, Kurt Frankenstein, who boarded in agirlfriend’s home. Kurt was a survivor of the Holocaust, and his work wastinged with that sadness. My mom didn’t like this charcoal because she said itmade me look too old and sad. Jordan has taken into the house to hang in herhallway gallery. The other thing she took in was a primitive painting of a logcabin in a snowy scene. She was surprised when I told her I painted it. The logcabin is the birthplace of Andrew Taylor Still, founder of osteopathicmedicine. I painted that and one other, taken from a portrait of Still holdinga fibula and studying it, while in Kirksville and exploring what I wanted to do.IN my salad days, I was a great class goer and took classes in painting,sculpture, macrame, and writing. The painting of Still already hangs in the livingroom in the house, and I’m a bit embarrassed. I hope it’s fair to say I’m amuch better writer than a visual artist.
Changing topics, I am alternatelyamused and disgusted by the buzz over Taylor Swift and Travs Kelce. Seems likethose folks who delight in conspiracies can’t recognize outlandish when theysee it, and now they are claiming Swift is a psych-op—slang for psychologicaloperations. She is, they claim, an undercover operative for the Biden administration.The thing is that Swift has endorsed some Democratic candidates (includingBiden in 2020), she is philanthropically generous, she pays her troupe well andtakes care of them—and, she’s a success. Of course, that means she’s anundercover agent.
A Dallas area minister,musician, and writer, Eric Folkerth, published a Facebook column with a wholedifferent take. The problem, he says, isn’t Swift—she’s been a target forconservatives at least since 2020—the problem is Swift and Kelce. Travis Kelce,billed as the best tight end in football, represents the repressed dreams ofmost middle-aged American men who wanted to be sports superstars and musiciansin their youth. Conforming to society, they’ve put away the high schooltrophies and hung up the guitar, gone to work in a steady job, raised a family,joined a church, become a good citizen. And here’s Kelce, living out his bestdream.
I found Mr. Folkerth’s columnthought-provoking (look it up on Facebook) but I believe, as someone suggested,he writes from the masculine point of view. The same could be said for womenand jealousy—yes, that’s the word—of Swift’s success. Most of us dream ofstardom of one kind or another—for me, it was the New York Times bestsellerlist. The closest I ever came was when they reviewed one of my books favorably.And a friend, older enough to be a mother figure, said to me, “Have you everconsidered that you’ve had more success than most who want to be writers?” No Ihadn’t, because we always want that spotlight, that stardom. And Taylor Swiftis one of the few women, at least in our day, who’ve made that dream come true,especially in show business.
And now she and Kelce are,from all appearances, wildly, madly in love. That once-in-a-lifetime, if you’relucky, kind of love that just like stardom and sports fame, eludes too many ofus. What’s not to envy? For me, they are so ecstatically happy, at least onscreen,and it does appear genuine, that I am delighted for them. And I’m sorry for theslings and arrows of the bitter that have been thrown at them. I wish them,individually and as a couple, nothing but continued success and happiness. Ifthey can hold on to what they have now, they will be fortunate.
But there are those conspiracytheories. You know what, if she were a Biden psych-op (what a strange term), Isay more power to her. We need good, successful people on our side.