You hold the key

It is about your growth

Never regret your past. Whatever it was, embrace it instead. If it is a painful past, let go of your pride and self-pity; then allow yourself to learn from it, and use what you learn to increase your understanding of yourself, of others, and of life.

If it is a happy past, cherish the memories. Don’t expect it to come back, and don’t hold on to the feeling with obsession; but let it go, observe from a distance, and use the good in it to bring you a mindset of love and positivity.