Using a story to covert-brag can be fair.
But if the covert brag involves you looking bad and your “friend” looking great by comparison, well, that’s a nasty power move.
We call it “nasty social climbing”.
And it’s when someone uses you as a “social peg” to reach higher (while they push you lower).
Let’s see a real-life example of how that would look like:
Red flag #1 

: You look bad in the story
Imagine:
Your friend is telling a story involving both of you.
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        Published on June 18, 2023 06:29