I Will Be Okay If…

I wonder if you can relate to this at all. Ever thought like this?

I will be okay if so-and-so gets better. I will be okay if my son stops drinking. I will be okay if the television news gets better. I will be okay if she stops treating me badly. I will be okay if so-and-so apologizes. I will be okay if I get into graduate school. I will be okay if I get another job. I will be okay if I get a raise. I will be okay if I get out of jail soon. I will be okay if my spouse stops having an affair and ...