If You’re Struggling This Christmas…

Spending time with family and friends at Christmas can be a strange mix of exciting and challenging. While Christians will rejoice today in remembrance of their Saviour’s birth, for many people who have strained relationships today might also be uncomfortable. For those in the latter group, here are three ideas to help you enjoy your day:

If you are feeling overwhelmed, take a walk alone. You can use the alone time to pray, and others will respect you for looking after your mental health.Express your feelings openly. Are you anxious about something? Angry with someone? You can communicate these feelings in a kind and gentle way, simply by voicing your emotions calmly and respectfully. It takes bravery, but doing this could lead to healing and restoration.If in doubt, be unceasingly kind. Whatever you’re going through, you always have the option to be as kind as you can possibly be in every situation, to whoever you’re with. Volunteer to do the washing up or tidy the house, or put on your loved one’s favourite music, perhaps. If someone is mean to you, afford them some grace and respond with kindness.

I’m spending Christmas Day alone this year, but this is no cause for concern. I am content. I can remain focused on my relationship with God, which is ultimately the only relationship that really matters to me. I have food and drink, warmth and shelter, great music to listen to and access to sacred Scripture, among countless other blessings. Thanks be to God!

Feel free to leave a comment letting me know how you’re spending Christmas Day this year — I’d love to hear what you’re up to, whatever your beliefs or circumstances. Wishing you all a very merry Christmas.