How I understood what life is?

Ever since my childhood, I have always been listening to the words of someone. It started with my parents then my friends. Though I take a decision, I fail to keep up the decision owing to my wandering heart which listens and believes to the words of others.

At a point in time, I realised that only I know what is happening in my life. Even though others seem to be genuinely caring, they still do not know how I handle people, situations meaning they know just one side of the whole story from which their decisions in my life cannot be right. I literally felt what my close friend told me was true, I didn’t live my life all these days.

Now if I wish to ask something to someone whom I trust then I would choose to tell the whole story and make them understand to validate my choice or leave it still without uttering a word so that their interpretations don’t confuse my decisions. That is how I understood what my life is and have become ready to face the consequences of my own choices cause’ at least I have the happiness of my own choice.