4. Self Improvement

How can you improve yourself ?  The most important factor in self improvement is to be utterly honest to yourself. Dont try to defend your faults or weaknesses. Be like a mirror to yourself. You have to keep observing yourself, your thoughts, your behaviour to know and understand your weaknesses or faults. Then only you can improve yourself. Asking others about what they think of you may or may not help you. Everyone has their own perceptions and limitations and they will perceive you differently with their own biased opinions and conditionings. So in that case can you completely trust other people’s opinions about you ? Learn to look at yourself the way you are and not what you are trying to be for others , then only you will be able to see your real self and not the false self. Once you know your faults and weaknesses then you can start working on them and work towards self improvement.