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Oct 06, 2020 11:07AM
False Accusations of Rape: Lynching in the 21st Century
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What kind of system can possibly accept this outracious definition of rape? Why have Western societies descended into a war of sexes and men-hating public spirit? Some clues about the origin of men-hating can be found in history.
Men-hating possibly started with devaluation and disrespect of men due to an inflated valuation of women. For instance, some territories of the United States in the 1800s had a very low female-to-male ratio. This poor demography led to a high demand for women on the side of lonely men. The lack of women was mitigated through a facilitated immigration and relocation of women to the affected territories. Oftentimes, the women who came to fill the gap were old European prostitutes who sought new lives and opportunities in the New World, because their status was compromised "beyond repair" in their home countries.
While undesirable in their home countries, they became highly desirable in the New World where men thursty for love and family life quickly put the women on a pedestal and were even willing to fight each other to win the attraction of these women. The assumed special position and over-valuation made these women feel entitled and valued above men, which eventually caused them to disrespect men in general and coin this prevailing trend for decades to come.
Second possible cause underlying modern men-hating lies in the epidemic of divorces in Western societies and custodial fights. Since bullshit and impression decide on the outcome of legal battles rather than material evidence, women fighting their ex-husbands for custody of children evolved strategy that resulted in the "malicious father syndrome". Maligning fathers by mothers made vulnerable children unjustly reject their fathers and later generally disrespect men and eventually hate them as a group.
Something must be wrong with societies in which women apparently cannot be valued and appreciated more without devaluing and oppressing men. It can only happen in antagonistic societies, in which everything is perceived as a zero-sum game, and the gain for one group can only be achieved through the loss of another group. This is because these societies only developed primitive competitive strategies, and not collborative ways mutually beneficial for all the groups.
Unlike primitive competitiveness and antagonism, coexistence based on a collaboration, mutialism, solidarity and complementation requires more advanced societal development. This level of development was achieved in some East European countries, where the war of sexes would be unimaginable and deplorable in the same way as a war against children or a war against old people. This is because they eliminated exploitation, which is the major driving force behind antagonism and many internal conflicts in Western societies. Not surprisingly, there was far lower divorce rate, far less destroyed marriages, far less custodial fights and far less children manipulated by mothers to hate their fathers. Women could assume top positions in these societies based on their meritorious achievements, unlike in these days in the Western societies, where exaggerated policies for "advancement of women" effectively established discrimination of men, including in job hiring in many segments of society - most prominently in Academia. Societies who prefer certain gender and ignore merit are doomed and cursed to experience war of sexes with deleterious effects on all of us. All of us will miss a talented guy, who was not hired for a research position, because the search committee was obsessed with hiring women rather than men. The guy could have developed something beneficial - a better agricultural production, a better fuel for our transportation, or a better drug for Alzheimer disease that will be a future destiny for many of us. This is the price of your politically-motivated decisions when you ignore merit and go with trendy gender preferences.
It is well known that women can be appreciated, treated with respect, love and even adoration without need to wage and win the war of sexes over men. The history and the arts are clearly showing that women have had a huge value for men as lovers, mothers, sisters, grandmothers, leaders, teachers, friends...As a source of impression, beauty, care, support and a drive for men to make the world better for men and women together. For this value of women, men not only waged wars, mined gold, hunted pearls, climbed the Himalayas-the roof of our world, but also sought and found the cause of childbed fever, invented treatments for breast cancer and created immortal poems, statues and other arts. Only people grown up in ignorance can lack this understanding and engage in the multifaceted war of sexes that includes anything from outrageous false rape accusations to gender-based discrimination at workplaces. The secret of freedom lies in educating people whereas the secret of tyranny is in keeping them in ignorance (M. Robespierre).





