WHERE TO START WITH SELF-LOVE
Pretty Girls,
This is for you! So many of you are so giving and filled with empathy and compassion, which are beautiful qualities; however, they also need to extend to self. No matter how deep you catch feelings there has to be a part of you which stays grounded in self-respect being more important. Let me explain it like this for those of you who are asking how we separate this!
Pretty Girls, you know you are the best girlfriend in the world and you know when your girl asks you for advice you are putting her first. This is what you need to do for yourself. You need to think about your problem or issue or whatever needs to be solved and write it all down. Then Pretty Girls, read it back to yourself like your friend was telling it to you. What advice would you give your friend? You know what you would say - you know what you would want for her! Show the same upfront, real-advice to yourself and then …. Listen to it!
Pretty Girls you have to stop allowing these men to manipulate you. You have to learn to recognize her game and get out of it. You don’t have time to play these cat and mouse or as King Guru puts it hamster in the cage games. You need to recognize real-men, men who plan to step into your life and treat you like a beautiful woman will not be playing childish games and messing around with baby momma’s and side chicks. These men who do that need their egos inflated and generally have underlying mommy issues, which lead them to distrust women.
One of the most important things you can do Pretty Girls is to check and see what type of relationship these Bad Boys have with their moms. If it is dysfunctional and/or he speaks disrespectfully to her or about her - RUN!! This is how he will eventually treat you. Stop and think back about how this has played out in your life and let me know your thoughts! Can’t wait to hear them Beautiful Women!!
This is for you! So many of you are so giving and filled with empathy and compassion, which are beautiful qualities; however, they also need to extend to self. No matter how deep you catch feelings there has to be a part of you which stays grounded in self-respect being more important. Let me explain it like this for those of you who are asking how we separate this!
Pretty Girls, you know you are the best girlfriend in the world and you know when your girl asks you for advice you are putting her first. This is what you need to do for yourself. You need to think about your problem or issue or whatever needs to be solved and write it all down. Then Pretty Girls, read it back to yourself like your friend was telling it to you. What advice would you give your friend? You know what you would say - you know what you would want for her! Show the same upfront, real-advice to yourself and then …. Listen to it!
Pretty Girls you have to stop allowing these men to manipulate you. You have to learn to recognize her game and get out of it. You don’t have time to play these cat and mouse or as King Guru puts it hamster in the cage games. You need to recognize real-men, men who plan to step into your life and treat you like a beautiful woman will not be playing childish games and messing around with baby momma’s and side chicks. These men who do that need their egos inflated and generally have underlying mommy issues, which lead them to distrust women.
One of the most important things you can do Pretty Girls is to check and see what type of relationship these Bad Boys have with their moms. If it is dysfunctional and/or he speaks disrespectfully to her or about her - RUN!! This is how he will eventually treat you. Stop and think back about how this has played out in your life and let me know your thoughts! Can’t wait to hear them Beautiful Women!!
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