What was the Question Again, exactly?

Belriose seems to have a question about the eternal war between the sexes, but I cannot parse her (or his, or its -- on the web One Never Knows, Do One?) meaning. This is part of an ongoing discussion that began here.

Belriose says: "I already asked: I wonder why you seem to assume that everything that doesn't fulfill the traditional roles is necesarly bad and devoided of the virtues of the old conceptions about romance or family."

This is not a question, but a rhetorical statement. I made no comm