Wondering Why?

he simple change from why to how brings a fundamental shift in the way each person sees themselves. The 'why' questions are for victims while the 'how' questions are for people who are pro-active in molding their life. When you begin to figure out 'how' to make your life better, you have taken a major step forward. Once you give up the status of victim and become the author of your own life, you begin to create that life rather than having others create it for you.