
That's a fantastic story, Caidyn--thanks for sharing! I hope you get the job!

Although I'm a single mom of two kids, who has had more than my fair share of really rotten things happening in my life, I've also been blessed with a lot of kindness and support shown to me. I'm thankful for the days that aren't a struggle. I also learn so much from, and am thankful for the days that just about tear me down.
Here is my share of just one small kindness I've experienced.
I have a monthly meeting of a support group that I like to attend. Since my husband left, it was increasingly hard to get to because of not having child care (and babysitters get expensive, fast!). My neighbor (and friend) called me, after hearing about it, to make sure she had the correct meeting time on her own calendar, so that she knew when to come and sit with my kids (for free) so I could go to the meeting. Not only that, her husband (an HR exec) is my "career coach" and support in my quest to return to full time work. I'm so blessed to have these people in my life.

On the scale of things that seem nigh-impossible to me, I put being a single parent slightly ahead of jumping the Grand Canyon, turning coal into diamonds if you're not Superman, and finding more than three people who like Circus Peanuts. I can only imagine the pressures and challenges you face, Catherine--you're a rock star in my book! I'm glad you've got some good support people in your life--your neighbor/friend sounds like a good egg. I really appreciate you sharing that!


As much as I admire your challenge, I don't have a story to share as I haven't witnessed any acts of kindness lately. I even expanded the time-frame you've given above and yet ... nothing ... Isn't that sad?

That's amazing, Audrey--thanks for sharing!

As much as I admire your challenge, I don't have a story to share as I haven't witnessed any acts of kindness lately. I even expan..."
I recently saw a clown help a little kid get his paper boat back... does that count?

BWAHAHAHAHA - only if he subsequently helped the boy to float.

As much as I admire your challenge, I don't have a story to share as I haven't witnessed any acts of kindness lately. I even expan..."
I bet, however, that YOU'VE done something nice for someone, knowing you...

BWAHAHAHAHA - only if he subsequently helped the boy to float."
We all float down here!

As much as I admire your challenge, I don't have a story to share as I haven't witnessed any acts of kindness lately..."
What a sweet, sweaty, creepy lil clown...

Here's my random act:
Last Sunday, I was volunteering at a bingo fundraiser for my daughter's school. The prizes were purses - fancy, ridiculously expensive purses that I have neither the desire nor the budget to own. So I'm standing at the snack bar, and this one game for a pink purse just keeps going and going. A little girl (about 8) directly in my line of sight is getting more and more excited as she marks more and more spaces on her bingo card. The announcer calls B-16, and the next ball to be called pops up on the video screen: B-5. A woman yells BINGO on the B-16 call, and the little girl explodes into tears. Turns out, all she needed was B-5 to win the pretty pink purse, and her BINGO came after the other woman's, so she lost. I couldn't handle a crying child in my vicinity - I'm weak like that - so I grabbed a juice box, a bag of Swedish Fish, and a slice of pizza from the bar and took them over to her. Her mom looked on in confusion as I said "I know it doesn't make up for losing the game, but please enjoy a treat on me, you were so close!" The little girl smiled at me through her tears and said "I LOVE gooey fish!" and held up the bag happily. Me too, kid, me too.

Here's my random act:
Last Sunday, I was volunteering at a bingo fundraiser for my daughter's school. The prizes we..."
Christine, you're one of the good ones--and even though I think Swedish Fish are the snack equivalent of badger feces, I respect your right to enjoy them! :)
Thanks for sharing that awesome story!

As far as actually seeing this kind of action, my mother-in-law did something very kind over the weekend. I was working a Veteran's 5K race and she participated. She was towards the back of the pack and there was a Vietnam veteran who was in last place and looked to be struggling a bit as it was a mountainous course. She looped back and walked with him all the way to the finish and kept him company. He didn't really need any help in the long run but I was glad that she took it upon herself to look after him. She ended up in last place, which wasn't a big deal at all, but adding more distance to an already challenging 5K wasn't necessary but she did it anyways.

Aw, that is nice (and true), but to speak of things I supposedly did for others would be self-praise so I shan‘t comment. ;)

BWAHAHAHAHA - only if he subsequently helped the boy to float."
We all float down here!"
:D

As far as actually seeing this k..."
That was very cool of your mother-in-law (does it still feel weird to say that, or have you gotten used to all of the being married terminology??).
See, that's the thing--every single day, a million times a million of these little acts happen, and they're not newsworthy, but they give the lie to the (clickbait) narrative that the world is an awful place. And, yes, there's some horrific stuff going on out there. But, I'm feeling at least a little better with all of these wonderful stories being shared...

It is still weird but since Taylor and I have been together so long, I'm getting used to it.
People go out of their way all the time to help other people. When I was working at Starbucks, we would frequently get people buying strangers drinks or helping each other out. I would always give free coffee to servicemen and women and police officers. This was to thank them (and to make sure the police were frequently at the store since it was in a bad part of town).

Self-interested philanthropy is the best kind. :)

I mean someone did get shot across the street from that place last month

Yeah, you generally want people to get A shot from a coffee shop. Not just get shot. That's not good. And the opposite of an uplifting story about humanity's goodness...

"Yes, I'd like an extra shot too."
"Lead or espresso?"


Ha!

Nice! That's awesome, Paul--thanks for sharing.

That sounds great! Is it for Help for Heroes (I‘m thinking because Nov 11 is so close) or something else?

Always a good reason (and reminder) for helping out the other humans!


Thanks, Amanda! Teachers are pretty much the best. For my money, the must underpaid and underappreciated profession there is (though I won't object to those who argue on behalf of police officers and fire fighters). Thank you for doing what you do!

I thought it was such a nice moment! Not only for the store worker who was obviously grateful that someone took the time to help him, but also for the little girl and her mother who were beaming after the manager came over to acknowledge her kindness!

I love it, David--thanks for sharing (and for always being such a force for good in the GR universe)!

I know this isn't a big deal, and doesn't compare at all to some of the fantastic stories shared so far, but it was a big deal to me. It let me know that I was valued and missed, and they took time out of their very busy week to plan and execute this. I might still be a little tearful.

Paula, I love it--that's exactly the kind of thing I love to hear about...I mean, that's what it all comes down to, right? We just want to feel valued, appreciated, and like we're part of a larger tapestry of people who similarly believe in kindness, decency, and helping each other out.

I moved out to the suburbs not too long ago because I was tired of loud neighbors and partying, so now most of my neighbors are the elderly and their dogs. I went on a cleaning spree and my boyfriend offered to take out the trash. Not 2 minutes after he walks out he comes back and grabs his car keys and tells me he's too lazy to walk. He comes back about 15 minutes later and just kind of shrugs off the time it took.
When I went out later my next door neighbor stopped me. She told me she's 82 and she gave up her license not too long ago and she wanted to tell me how sweet it was of my boyfriend to give her a ride to take out her trash and check her mail and take her to the office so she could pay her rent because it's such a long walk to the front of our community. She told me he kept telling her it wasn't a big deal and he even gave her his phone number in case she ever needed his help again and she wanted to tell me what a gentleman he was.
It made me smile so I thought I'd share. :)

I moved out to the suburbs not too long ..."
That's awesome, Aja--thanks for sharing that story! Your BF is a good doobie. :)


I think you meant it was a wonderful evening BECAUSE of the mass consumption of alcohol...
Thanks for sharing that, Megan! Not only is it an amazing gesture for people to organize that kind of celebration, but it speaks volumes about the person for whom the celebration was organized, because she is clearly someone all of those people love and appreciate (and for good reason)--you don't do that for someone who isn't awesome!
(In this case, I happen to know for a fact that the brave and resilient soul who completed that course of treatment also happens to have phenomenal taste in books, but that's neither here nor there...)


That's incredible--thanks for sharing that story, Allie! Human ingenuity is a splendiferous thing...
I just wish we could treat each other the way we treated that delightful dog!

An excellent point!

How do you know we're NOT and just didn't tell you? :)

How do you know we're NOT and just didn't tell you? :)"
Because contrary to most other people, I'm neither blind nor stupid.

How do you know we're NOT and just didn't tell you? :)"
Because contrary to mos..."
Yes, but maybe we're saving it as a birthday surprise for you...
But, basically, she called me and told me about a job she could have just kept quiet about since she's applying as well. It's probably the kindest thing that anyone's done for me who wasn't a family member.